Recently had a talk with my girlfriend about what kinds of new things we'd like to try in the bedroom. I brought up having a threesome, and surprisingly, she wasn't opposed to it.We're not sure how to approach anyone about it though. Anyone have any experience and suggestions? Stories to share?As always, related gifs and webms to get us excited are welcome as well.
>>9701672I can help you but first I need advice getting a girlfriend
>>9701672Are you attractive? If so, all you have to do is ask.
>>9701672I hope you don't think it will be like the gifs lol, it'll probably be awkward as hell
im 23 had two threesomes with my girl and another girl, what u wanna know?
>>9701692Yeah, that's mostly our concern. Want to make third person feel comfortable and engaged, not just awkwardly masturbating in the corner.Also, still want to be able to look them in the eye in public afterward.
My gf and I talked about it, she asked her cousin and her cousin said no. She mentioned it off-handedly at work one day and her co-worker was down, and we were at it that night.It's not exactly rocket science if you have a female, I've done it with friends and my gf on quite a few occasions. It happens depending on how honest you are and who you ask. The thing with me is that it just kind of happened.Friendly advice: if you go for it, be ready to lead everything. If you don't it can get really boring, or worse, they will decide they're having more fun without you and ate on the side, which leads to emotional detachment and breakup. also be ready for butthurt. One or both of them will resent you, that is a given, but how they resent you and WHY are the bigger issues.Also porn helps. I watched plenty with friends of mine long before the three of us got together, a few times one of them watched me have sex with the other. It helps a bit like survival instructional videos can help. They don't have to do it to learn what to do when it happens.>tfw haven't had sex in years nowDon't envy me guys. I'm not the champ I may appear to be.
>>9701686I'd say so. I think we're both probably 7's, and we're in shape. No 6 pack or anything, but we're both active and athletic. Both of us were hooking up with folks before we started dating without too much difficulty. We're more concerned about the awkwardness of initial foreplay and dealing with the aftermath.
>>9701715Ever gone at it with another guy?Certainly not my preference, but I'm not entirely opposed to the idea. I don't think I could ask her to let me fuck another girl though if I weren't willing to let her do the same.
>>9701733No, so not really an issue. My gf and friends were all bisexual, and all of them preferred men but enjoyed women.NONE of them would have seen that as a matter of being equal. Whenever the idea came up (lolguilt) they would shoot it down pointing out the obvious; men on men was not the same, a woman that wants another man may as well have another man, and if he wanted another man she was a player and trying to test and stir shit up.There really isn't equal, and if she's not into doing it with a female (or in a 3some) it has nothing to do with males or keeping things "fair".
>>9701672I had two threesomes with my current gf. Both happened before we got together and both times was with two guys.The first time it was during a sleepover - we went out one night and the three of us decided to go back to my place and sleep in my bed. I started touching her and things got hot really quickly. The funny thing is that this was actually the first time I had sex with her. Everything just happened naturally (we probably have to thank alcohol as well).The second time it was because a friend of mine was visiting and told me he just split up with his gf - so, to cheer him up, I just casually shot the threesome in there and he accepted.Be careful though. Threesomes (especially with other guys) can be difficult to manage. Both the guys we did it with had problems getting hard and finishing. It is a big psychological effort as far as I've seen.Now my gf and I are on a quest to find us a girl to have a threesome with, but it seems to us that it's just harder to find girls ready to go down compared to men (even though in the end they might not perform).
Get a bunch of coke, the three of you blast rails and go at it. No more awkwardness. No post orgasm regret. Just don't do too too much or you won't be able to get hard.
>>9701893>harder to find girls ready to go down compared to menThat's kinda obvious. Ever try bars? Some of my friends and I met at them and that was how it happened after a while.Don't let the prude acts fool you, one of the women I did this with was a pro athlete (tennis) and her father was a judge.I can't imagine trying that shit with another guy. Porn vids don't show all the viagra they have to take to stay hard. it's just not natural. Two or more females on the other hand is way more natural (unless homo).
A fun game some friends and I came up with. I play this with him and his wife from time to time.Start clothedRed card drawn loose an article of clothingBlack card drawn take a drinkA Masturbate a mate. Min 10 seconds max 30 seconds2 You - Pick someone to Drink 3 Me - You drink4 Chore - Pick someone to preform a chore 5 Survive - blindfolded until next turn6 Licks - Pick a person and lick there skin7 Heaven - Pick a date and they rub their hands over you. Teasing, massage etc8 Choose their Fate - choose any person and card.9 Grind10 Again - Repeat last card with different personJ Rack or SackQ Eat the queenK Blow the KingJoker - shuffle discards back into deck are redeal. Choose another card Joker does not get reshuffledTasks should be kept to 60 seconds or so.
>>9701672hey man. i've had a few so i'll share.my first threesome was planned out.me and the current GF came to an agreement that a threesome would be fun but wanted another girl and not a guy. so i contacted a girl i banged a while back and asked if she was interested. she said she was down but wasnt too big into girls ( however after a few years later she went near full lesbian but keeps me on the side)so the day came, we met at a hotel. had a meal and talked a bit. both girls agreed they felt ok enough with each other so we went back to the hotel, they made out in the stairs, got to the hotel room and they both ganged up on me and didnt really do much with each other.Lessons learned from FFM.1) someone needs to lead the sex and include everyone. leaving someone out or not offering them to join in a times will leave them with a bad experience. you may need to do some moving around of the girls like one riding you and the other face sitting. 2) talk openly and talk often. get an idea of how they are feeling and guide off of that. a mistake i made3) if they are not into each other do force it. let it happen naturally 4) dont forget after care and cuddles. if you want some repeat action. dont forget thislessons learned form MFM:1) finding guys are easy. just ask.2) you may need the female to lead more often then not.3) sometimes you need to take turns. your girl most likely is not a porn star so her ability to multi task is limited. some girls dont do well blowing some dude and being pumped at the same time. 4) some dude lose their hard ons when other guys are around. if the girl is yours, let her know some ways to get you jump started again. planning helps. if you are the 3rd wheel. just stay focused on the task at hand. you have a mouth and fingers to work with until private johnson stands at attention again.
threesomes can cause a lot of problems in a relationship, they're not for those with any resemblance of trust issues, and it's probably better to do it with friends or when you're married, doing it in the middle opens the door to too many potential problemshave a game plan and positions you want to do in your head beforehand, things can get sloppy fastdon't let 1 on 1 happen too much, when your friend, male or female, makes your girlfriend cum, she's going to remember that, and if you weren't directly involved it means she isn't going to be thinking about you later
Recently had a talk about this as well with my recent gf. She's had a few and I've never had any. The whole idea makes me feel weird though. Like she says she'd be cool with 100% but I think it would bother me right now at least trying to do that. I think it's equal parts seeing her fooling around with someone else and then me doing the same. It doesn't sit well with me which is a disappointing revelation. And reading some of the replies here confirm my fears of it affecting our relationship after it's done. Luckily she says it's a non issue and would only want to do something if I'm okay with it
>>9702124If you don't feel comfortable with it, and feel that it may mess things up, then dont worry and try to push it any ways. It wouldn't be worth it if it ruins and complicates things
>>9702124Does she want to do it with another girl or a guy?
>>9701855>My gf and friends were all bisexualBisexuality is a meme.
>>9702124i've done only one MFM threesome with my ex gf, honestly, to be mentally prepared, you have to think about the whole thing as a new funny experience, a fun for both of you, the third person, especially if he's a male, will be considered just as a sex toy for her, if you're the leading, dominant type, you'll still be the dominant in the threesome and guide both of them to make you enjoy the moment more.it's just sex, anon, if your gf love you enough, she wont think 2 seconds about the other guy when you're done, he's just a living dildo, nothing more, that's why i'm more into strangers banging my gf with me instead of close friends who may have a "relationship" or at least a "friendship" with my gf, i don't want her to see the guy again in any way, it's just 1hour of fun and that's it, nothing more.One advice, don't do that if you're not able to make your gf cum, you still have to be the best in her eyes, another dick (or dicks) are just a bonus.woulddoitagainwithmoreguys/10.being the director of your own porn show is amazing, and watch your gf let her slut side dominate herself is ultra hot.Never done MFF thought, but i think it would be less fun than MFM.
>>9702147Yeah that's what I'm thinking. I definitely don't wanna screw this up and I think this girl specifically is what's bothering me. I had no real qualms about it with my ex who also brought it up except the fear I would be bad at it. It's good to hear another voice saying it though.>>9702157It'd be another girl, I told her I could not do it with another guy that would be too much
>>9702165No it is not, you faggot.
>>9702197Yeah I get that but I think I'm just too emotionally entrenched right now. I'm a sap at heart and prefer all that love in sex we have compared to just mindless fun. Not trying to knock anybody's thing though, all the more fun to you, it's just how I see it
I know I'm bi, and would enjoy another dude's dick as much as my gf, and she is bi-curious (never actually done anything, but has had crushes) and we both are pretty happy with each other. Pretty nice... But we both live with our own parents. So no tag teaming for us :/She is into bondage and got pretty turned on by the idea of me tying her up, blindfolding her, and then bringing in another person
>>9702225i always wanted to do it when i was fucking her, always talking about it when we had sex, she was super down, i was too but only when i was super horny, it was difficult for me to force myself to do it.my ex was sleeping in my bed, i was kind of touching myself in front of my computer, decided it was time to do it, i was just completely horny and needed to do that at least once in my life, i've came in a swinger website, contacted a random guy not far from my home, he came at my house, i explained to him that my gf was sleeping and we were going to make her a surprise (i was ultra nervous) and so we did, i think i stressed the guy a little bit since he couldnt get hard too much but honestly, i would do it again now i'm more confident with my sexuality, fantasm etc, shame that i'm not with her anymore, we could have so much more fun...But i wanted her to take the initative, like, forcing the threesome, not asking me to do it, just bring a guy and start sucking him in front of me, i would be super pissed for the first 10 secs and after that i would be completely horny...Hope i'll have a gf like that one day, or at least who's willing to have threesomes/gangbangs time to time without having to cheat on me, i just want a slutty gf who like plurality sex ;_;Anyway, if you don't feel it bro, don't do it, or at least make sure that your gf is completely ok with it as the way i described the experience to you, not if she's lusting after some others guys and using it as an excuse to "cheat" on you with your consent.
>>9702165Whatever helps you sleep at night... without a pair of women in your bed to keep you comfy.
>>9702120Mainstream movie called "Love"http://www.imdb.com/title/tt3774694/
Femanon, had many a threesome, with friends, with my bf, and with both of my bfs. COMMUNICATION. Before. During. After.Be open and honest. Discuss limits and things you wanna try. If it's two girls and a guy, the guy should guide the activities. If two guys and a girl, let the girl guide. I personally have never had issues keeping both guys hard, so I can't give advice in that other than communication is key. Also, make sure there is lots of communication between you and your S/O beforehand. If you communicate enough, and everyone is honest, a threesome should cause no issues with your relationship. If you communicate a ton and still have doubts, then you are not ready for a threesome.
>>9701672Yeah I have a advice. Talk to your partner and arrange it so you agree that both of you will fuck the girl, so it's you two against her if you know what I mean. If the two girls are fucking you or you are fucking the two girls it will cause all sorts of drama. You are the master, your girl is the mistress and the third party is the submissive slut - that's the only way it will work long term.
>>9701672>surprisingly, she wasn't opposed to it.oh lol, all women are whores. Enjoy having some dude fuck your gf better than you ever did. Cuck
>>9702626Also if you introduce a guy, which I wouldn't do, you have to make sure he understands the arrangement and is willing to take verbal orders as your right hand man. Your girl then becomes the submissive slut.
>>9701672Asking for threesome advice from a bunch of virgins.... good one, op.
>>9702165life is a meme you goofy fucker
>>9701722>concerned about the awkwardness of initial foreplaysmoke weed>dealing with the aftermathtougher. could try smoking weed but I feel that's irresponsible.
>>9701672Rules of thumb for a threesome:Don't cum with the other one. If you weren't in a relationship with one of them then whatever. But you are so only bust with your girl. TRUST ME.The other one is the third wheel, not the main event. Your girl still needs to feel like the best so use her to set examples for the other one on how you like it and what not. If your girl sees that the other fucks you better its almost guaranteed fodder for an argument later.All three set rules ane expectations. It might seem awkward to coordinate sex before doing it but it will help keep things from being chaotic and possibly disappointing.HAVE FUN! Just remember to keep everything light hearted and cheerful. If it aint fun then why do it?
>>9702002I hate getting my balls rubbed during sex because I nut instantly from it
>>9702682got any same like that but with nigga dick?
>>9702808just mygf three teen sucking a dick http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph55f6008260077
i am looking for 2 different 3some webms.one of them is 2 chicks are in 69 position and dude gives a creampie to top chick, bottom chick eats cums from top chick's pussy. it was diamond tierother one, 2 dudes are spitroasting an asian girl, one of the dudes give her a facial to her smiling face and mouth
>>9702630hahahah holy shit this insecurity.