Does being a virgin REALLY mean I'm pathetic? I mean does it REALLY even matter?
go make love to ginko. NOW
There is nothing special about losing your virginity, you won't get a prize or anything. I rather be a single fuck, then marry some bitch with whiny kids.
no, sex is boring anyways
Pay for a hooker then you'll have your damn answer.
Your pathetic, regardless if your a virgin or not.
If you tried not to be,aka tried to have a relationship with a woman and constantly failed, then yes.
If you didn't even try or care to begin with, no.
Depends how well other aspects of your life measure up I guess.
i'm a 23 years old (since sunday) virgin, BEAT THAT
his answer will be AIDS
A type does not make me wrong and you a faggot
You're pathetic only if you whine about how much you're ronery.
Of course it does, if everyone on 4chon tells you that, it must obviously be true.
Mainstream ideals says you must be disvirgined by 15 or you're a pathetic loser.
It does, when you tell yourself "I don't need it" but the truth is "I can't get any"
But if you accept the fact that you failed, it's less pathetic.
I have you beat by three months.
Girls say yes.
Guys say meh. Fuck even the most jockish faggots I've met wouldn't really give a shit.
It seems to be more girls that care for some reason.
Immediately after having sex for the first time you start worrying about when you're going to have sex the next time.
No, it's just a myth propagated by normalfags trying to give some kind of signifigance to real life, which has none. Being a virgin is fine, you're not missing out unless you enjoy lying to yourself.
iirc 90% of /a/ is virgin
/a/ - Social board.
It doesn't matter. Who's gonna' know?
No, and this is coming from a non-virgin. Sex is not all that it's cracked up to be. Most just use it as a way to act like they are superior if they can get laid a lot.
Obsessing over sex only leads to a feeling of emptiness, so don't focus on it.
Instead, just focus on what makes you happy, because that is what really matters.
Also, who cares if you are pathetic, we're all pathetic in some way. Some people are workaholics and thus pathetic because they have no real life outside of work. Some are slackers, some have STDS so they have that stigma and thus pathetic, others are pathetic in other ways.
Who gives a shit?
Have anybody ever had a person ask you if you were a virgin or not? I would always say yes because saying it in front of a crowd is just embarrassing yet, it fucking shouldn't be
Sex is overrated.
Just like Myspace
Just like anime
Just like 4chan
It makes you wrong AND a idiot.
it really doesn't matter that much by the time you hit about 35 you won't want it any more (hormones)
it would actually be impressive to see someone live there whole life never having sex
lol no cheating you have to at least live 60 years
Why though? Why do girls care more about it than guys and mock people so?
Not only am I a virgin, but I don't masterbate either!
girls apparently like experienced men.
>You're pathetic only if you whine about how you can't get a 3D girl. Whining about 3D girls not being as good as 2D girls is fine.
remember when girls used to value their virginity? me neither
Ah yes because the most important thing you have in your life is correcting the little errors in people and not trying to understand what they are trying to communicate.
Please grow up and accept other peoples mistakes. Maybe thats why no one accepts your mistakes.
yeah? I have only kissed a girl ONCE
Yeh but why do they hate virgins?
huh, I got disvirgined by 15, even though that's a lie since this is the internets har har
You'll be impressed with me when in 40 years I still haven't got laid?
anon got it a little bit mixed up:
Girls don't mind if a boy had sex but watch out to stay themselfs virgins as long as possible until their true love comes (which in reality happens at the age of 17 and lasts about 2 weeks (if it didn't happen while she was drunk))
I was working and some fuck asked me if I was a virgin and I said yes and they started laughing..Godamnit /a/ ;-;
basically child is born goes to preschool gets hit by a car lived there whole life a virgin :/
It gives them a feeling of power. To understand the women that do this, you must make the assumption that they have an inherent inferiority complex and are always looking to validate themselves and their own value, they can do this by making themselves feel superior to others by pointing out their failings, or through competition with other women.
tl&dr = women are far more insecure than men, they just hide it better.
I plan to settle the ruins of Rapture if anyone is interested. We will have dedicated fiber optics and bio-farms for food there.
NO GIRLS ALLOWED!
Oh yeah? Closest Ive ever gotten to kissing a girl was 15 years ago during an elementary truth or dear game where I backed out at the last minute.
Because they think you have no life, car, no hopes/dreams and still live with your mother.
they mock virgins because they are insecure and looking for someone more pathetic. like how we mock /jp/ users.
I'll hit u with a car
Girls are just horny bitches and get angry because they feel men have it easy and can be sluts without repercussions, so by not humping everything in sight, we are basically wasting the advantages of being men, in their eyes.
I like to think of it in a different manner. If these sluts end up sleeping with dozens of guys while I am still a virgin, that means I have double the fun to hold over their heads: 1) I can control myself and 2) Even when I am given more leeway do to my sex and do not take it, and that drives point 1) further home.
Slutty girls=DO NOT WANT. And I have every right to say that, because I don't follow the double-standard.
I wish I was still a virgin. I'm feeling left out by /a/.
fuck, i was beat
I don't know if this actually happens, but I have a memory of a friend (girl, long time ago) kissing me on the cheek. Strange.
Sex is overrated. Being in a steady relationship is ideal.
Women use sex to gain power.
Men use power to gain sex.
So, when you think about it, men desire the weapon that will destroy them...
But they would be wrong on all counts, I go to a good college, live with 3 friends and have my dad's old bmw.
btw, i think you are a woman.
>Maybe thats why no one accepts your mistakes.
No one accepts my mistakes because I don't make any mistakes, especially as stupid as yours. I can't understand what you're trying to communicate when you're talking like it's AIM chat.
To all of you taking about if being a virgin is really that crappy.
Go hire a hooker and fuck her right now. Then when you're done, realize how it wasn't everything you thought it would be.
There is your answer.
If you have ever fapped before, you have done it all.
Enjoy your AIDS
virgin AND poor
probably cuz if you already fucked means that: you deserved it -> woman that you fucked has accepted you for a men
I also kinda hate it when normal society just shoves the word PATHETIC in huge, red, capslock, bold letters in your face when they should really mind their own business
Women are a pretty dehumanized group of people as a whole. I always got off pretty well at school because I was the class clown whose nerdy habits were excused as part of my 'quirky' personality, thus I fitted in well (still a virgin though). But one thing I learnt from school is that girls are really fucking cruel, they can turn on the waterworks when they want to, but deep down they enjoy tormenting people, like a 6 year old would enjoy pulling the legs off of a fly.
tl;dr - women are dehumanized and don't really have much empathy. Look at the way they behave towards one another, it's so underhanded, bitchy and so on. Whereas men are up front about their feelings.
I think men are the real romantics and dreamers myself.
that's 10% more then /b/, I should hang out here more often!
I'm sensing a lot of pent up anger here. Issues much? I like sluttier girls, I sometimes watch 2d chicks being a bit more aggressive with sex and shit and I wish 3d chicks could be the same. Only the cute ones though.
I think the fact someone animated a piss-shiver is much more awesome than losing my virginity ever could be.
Thanks, I needed this.
>>Whereas men are up front about their feelings.
Oh, we can be sneaky and underhanded too if we wanted.
Yeah treat 4chan as some professional board.
oh wait... you are the 4chan professional. All you do is stay on /a/ all day long. I guess people just wanting to see "what's up" on the board doesn't belong here.
By the way being stubbon and saying its not a mistake doesn't make it not. Yeah your parents said you weren't a mistake but that can never be the truth.
I whole heartedly agree. Some people may see this as an exaggeration but goddamnit get close to one long enough and you'd see the many faces of deception.
How the fuck can they LIE like that.
That isn't even a word, but nice try.
We can, but it's usually a means to a more noble end, like what Machiavelli said. With women it's just bullshit stuff, like being underhanded in order to ostracize some other girl from their group for making some social faux pas or something...
I mean, it just borders on the absurd, you can't really compare machiavellian thinking in a social context to the wellbeing of a state.
>I think men are the real romantics and dreamers myself.
Yeah right. I think being lonely virgins turns us all into romantics, but normal guys sure as hell aren't romantic. But I guess neither are normal girls.
I agree, but has a man ever used tears and "oh I'm the weaker sex" to completely fuck your shit up?
Anger? Nah. More resigned acceptance.
I'm probably going to go searching around a third world country to find a waifu where they still follow the ancient tradition of hymen checking. American women...meh. I just think there should be standards.
High school girls are HORRIBLE.
There's the occasional abnormalfag who screws women, Lord Byron for example. Of course that shit doesn't really fly these days but I'm not romanticizing the past when I say it used to, Casanova got women because he was eloquent, he was witty and so on - Byron got women because he was poetic and could 'turn a heart with a penstroke'.
Those people are far more prevelant among the male gender than the female one.
NON ANIME RELATED THREAD ON MY /A/?
Take this faggotry to /jp/
dang /a/ we are getting all sentimental and emotional it gives me a feeling that isn't lulz or fap worthy ;__;
He was talking about OP's pic.
>>I'm probably going to go searching around a third world country
>>third world country
Sorry to break it to you. You are late.
you would think but how often do you find a woman who has become an alcoholic because her husband left her
I am convinced that men are the more romantic and sensitive sex. BUT, a lot of women are inconsistent and actually like the opposite, so you start to see a mutation in men's personality as they encounter these women, they become more cold and uncaring because they begin to realize that many women don't even like this sort of thing.
This is where the jackasses and the assholes are born.
some of the people here are anger based. I have friends that are girls openly tell me that they would never touch some of my other friends and it's slowly manifested into hatred towards women. I wonder if they're become rapist one day
haha oh man you got trolled hard
You know what I mean.
When they do this in public, yell at them for pissing on the entire women's rights movement just so they can try to play juvenile mindgames. Fun times ensue.
There was some study done in the Times that suggests women seek out violent and abusive relationships. Remember that feminist blogger that 7chan was raiding? I took the time to read her life story thing on her page, and it's pretty self-evident from what she states that from an early age she sought out assholes and violent men. Ergo it is her fault, it's womens fault for loving violent men.
"Deception comes naturally to women. But men live by a steel-clad code of honor."
"Dammit! Why can't women listen to reason?"
Listen to this man. You could learn something.
Men tend to find ‘logic’ comforting, and as such cannot pretend (for very long) to inhabit a world where fantasy (feminism) replaces nature & reality. Thinking men, as opposed to males, will simply walk away from feminism – and subsequently; women.
Which is an unfortunate thing.
On one hand, is great risk - while on the other, there is none.
It’s a no-brainer really… for men.
In Andrea Dworin’s book ‘Woman Hating’ – she states, “Men start wars, so they should have to fight them”. This avoids the concept that women LIKE aggressive men because it ties into the notion that he can protect her. I contend that, “Men will stop fighting wars when women stop loving men who do.”
Exactly, now get the fuck out.
just want to point some things out. just because you guys are ronery and so forth doesn't mean it's the women's fault. women are just as ronery. also you guys have too high of standards. always comparing 2d women with 3d. they can't compete with that. that's why women seek guys who are still into 3d.
Women have to take steps to rectify the decades of man-hating that has increasingly eliminated chivalry from society. Men ‘cannot’ be gentlemen if there are no “ladies” left. Since most men are (by nature) heterosexual, then it serves that men cannot (innately) find attractive ‘worth’ in a masculine female, the likes of which we see going to work everyday in her ‘powersuit’ showing men how it’s done. Men don’t desire women as ‘competitors’ in their environments. It’s only destructive to the harmony between men & women in a mating context – as is clearly evident today with no more than 30% of marriages lasting. Women demand to dive into all ‘male’ areas to compete with men? – fine – as long as they accept the responsibility of the decisions they make. “Forcing” nature to revolve around society doesn’t work. Despite what feminism will ‘force’ onto public perception – most men DON’T like arrogant bossy women (and no, we are not ‘threatened; by them. We just find them unappealing), most men don’t like ugly overweight women (and we don’t care what feminists say REAL women are supposed to look like).
No women on the internet
Troll meter is going off the scales here, gentlemen!
And what about you? You want some 'kawaii bishie' that doesn't exist in the real world. Abandon your madness, accept that we are the greater sex.
>>you guys have too high of standards
I should say the same for you (you as in women.)
Capitalization skills make it go off.
Real men don't read books.
Just because you don't fall within my standards doesn't make it too high =p
Nah, I don't hate women. I hate a society without standards. And i've learned through some of my relative these standards can be found in other countries(and therefore in their women) much easier than in the US.
I guess men are as fickle as women. Some want a women with less standards, and have less standards themselves because of it. I happen to want the opposite.
You probably won't believe me, but I'm in a committed relationship. I just know how a lot of you women think. There's a lot of inconsistent data regarding the nature of the female sex.
You're right, not everything is the woman's fault, but not everything is the man's fault. A lot of what's said here is actually true to a large extent. I've even noticed a lot of it in my own relationship, and knowing the things women will pull - helps to guard myself from being emotionally manipulated and fall into traps which will demean me as a man.
It really fucking hurts inside to be so single for so long (2 years old now). I'm not going to deny it, but I will soldier on, for I am a MAN and my silent stoic nature is what won Thermopylae, secured the Roman Empire, stood the ground at rourke's drift, crushed the Muslims during the Reconquista.... Whatever your situation, stand up and be a man, hold your head up high, and if you cant do that then build up your own confidence, not for a woman, but for pride in YOURSELF first and foremost! That's the mistake these advicefags make, their entirety of advice is geared around 'getting the girl'....
"Oh, work out - you'll get the girl."
"Buy some new clothes - you'll get the girl."
And so on. Your motivation should be "I'm going to do this to have confidence in myself, not for anyone else, but to have self-respect and dignity."
>Women have to take steps to rectify the decades of man-hating that has increasingly eliminated chivalry from society. Men ‘cannot’ be gentlemen if there are no “ladies” left.
>has increasingly eliminated chivalry from society.
EXACTLY. Show me a woman that's actually grateful that you pulled out her chair or held the door for her and I'll show a dog that shits money.
>women are just as ronery.
in those cases, women bawww, men fap.
My boyfriend and I were discussing something similar to this the other night. Basically we concluded that both genders have superficial barriers holding each other back. I found out that he likes girls with big boobs (which I lack) whereas I prefer guys who are tall, handsome, and keep themselves in shape. So all in all it's basically breaking down these barriers to find the right someone.
Yeah it sometimes hard not to fall into traps
No one gives a shit you whore.
For some strange reason, I see a future where sex and relationships are no longer needed and artificial insemination reigns supreme as the way to have a kid (for women at least)
A man's primary motivation is power. He wants the ability to bend others to his will, to make things go his way. Knowledge is power, and consequently all men have at least some instinctive interest in advanced knowledge.
A woman's primary motivation is the desire to be desired. Her life is a quest for external validation, experimenting with clothing, makeup, dieting and so forth in a neverending quest to turn heads, to be noticed, to tangibly prove to the world that she is worth something because women envy her and men desire her.
Only one of those motivations leads to great things. I will leave you to guess which.
If it makes you feel better I haven't had a woman all 29 years of my life.
It's almost like Brave New World...'cept with less sex.
And then you wonder why you're ronery.
Uso da. There great women and sensitive and inteligent girls out there, stop lying to yourself to feel better.
wait wat, i saw 300 too and they all died
So, when the Japanese finally make the female robot loveslaves, what should we expect from the typical man - woman dynamic?
The prime power that women have over men will be gone now that a man can simply buy a machine that will love him and have sex with him just the way he is.
Imagine the brickshitting that will occur when that happens. It will be glorious.
Animals are having more sex than I, a human, am.
You never missed out on much, believe me.
Sometimes it was good. Sometimes it was a pain. Women are not equal to men and never will be, they are the architects of their own demise with feminism just like they were in Imperial Rome:
"Roman women unwittingly wrecked with their own hands their feminine strongholds within a patriarchal society; from the proud, dignified and influential mothers they had been in early republican times, they became despisers of their prime biological function in imperial times and began competing with men on men's terms. In this, they were unsuccessful. They made no significant contribution to whatever Roman culture there was; and by failing to reestablish respect for specifically female values, they made their contribution to the corruption of Roman life under the imperial sway of the Caesars -- without ever achieving any direct share in political power."
You can probably expect man robots to be made as well.
SHIT'LL HIT THE FAN
>>There great women and sensitive and inteligent girls out there
Yeah but will women accept them? I know men will accept the female robot loveslaves, but with women being more emotional creatures, will a mindless or even just programmed automaton really satisfy them?
I know a few who would. Basically just as ronery as /a/non.
It's funny how even though she's too healthy, the real girl in Petite Roid is my favorite.
What if it buys them stuff and is open with its....uhhhhh robotic scripted feelings?
Fuck, it'd never work.
Japan better fucking deliver and make them underage.
what part of petite roid is that from?
I think Alexander Pope sums it up best:
"What mighty ills have not been done by woman! Who was ’t betrayed the Capitol?—A woman! Who lost Mark Antony the world?—A woman! Who was the cause of a long ten years’ war, And laid at last old Troy in ashes?—Woman! Destructive, damnable, deceitful woman!"
Whoever keeps using quotes from random books and shit, stop it. It's annoying.
Don't worry, we already have loli real dolls. Japan will deliver.
Being asexual is awesome.
No grudges against either gender.
Protip: women don't like or respect a man that pities himself or hates other women for not having a girl even if there a virgin
Plain and simple
>Being asexual is awesome.
It's not just an excuse for being a virgin, some people really do feel no sexual or emotional attraction towards anyone.
I....would..uh like to uh stay with you guys since this thread is uh kinda interesting but I must be bidding adieu to uh you faceless people. Goodnight and don't let the gophers bite.
Except that's impossible you fucking underage b& faggot.
No, Anonymous, YOU are annoying.
>Protip: women don't respect a man
>Plain and simple
you are pathetic for asking the question
What matters is WHY you're a virgin.
Because he hasn't had sex?
The truth hurts?
Women's devious ways have been documented since the dawn of time. When anonymous eventually enters a relationship this fact will be confirmed for him.
>women don't like a man that pities himself or hates other women for not having a girl even if there a virgin
it doesnt even take that long
Virgin doesnt mean pathetic but if youre 40years old and still a virgin now thats pathetic
Christ, are you fucking kidding me?
Setting yourself up for disappointment, I see.
lol, what if you're a Buddhist monk, dude.
Sex is 98% trying to get the girl off, 2% finally allowing yourself to get off because the bitch finally had her orgasms.
It's work with a small payoff at the end, if you want to do it right.
wow, that's pathetic. You're pathetic.
or creating a dead line for himself, most people do in their high school years
Women are the cause of everyone's suffering.
WHO ATE THE MOTHERFUCKING FORBIDDEN FRUIT? A WOMAN
itt, we hate what we can't have
A lot of serial killers and rapists are 100% justified in what they do imo.
You're on 4chan. What's your point?
Stop linking your self-worth to your viriginity and you'll be fine!
At least I have sex.
Oh my god this thread. Are you all fucking serious or just like to pretend being retarded? ...I was going to type a wall of text explaining how much of a failure you're all are but whatever. Meeting my girlfriend in 20 minutes.
MOTHERFUCKING SAGE FOR SOCIAL RETARDS.
Men hate women, women hate men. We can all agree 2d is superior. Let us leave each other alone.
I bet she's fat.
I bet she has a penis.
Better luck next time, asshat!
>Meeting my girlfriend in 20 minutes.
Get the fuck off normalfag.
>MOTHERFUCKING SAGE FOR SOCIAL RETARDS.
Welcome to 4chan /a/.
ITT rational people and butthurt women.
i just want to be alone for the rest of my life, can't stand people
He doesn't have a girlfriend lol.
Shinji? Is that you?