Never raged so hard in my life.
Why didn't he go after her?
What the fuck? Fucking faggot.
ONE MORE TIME, ONE MORE CHANCE
Why didn't he just call her?
Why would he choose that shitty life when he could find her again?
That ending never made sense to me. The train only passed her for like, 10 seconds, and she suddenly disappeared.
Did she run or something? Even then, he should've seen her.
This movie is shit. It was not deep, it was not emotionally engaging, it was just boring, trite, shit.
If anything I don't think the girl is actually there, it's just a symbolism of how Takaki can finally let go of his past.
>What is symbolism?
I like the movie, but faggots like OP are ruining it.
The point is he is content with letting her go. She has her own life now.
There are tons of people who loved it for some reason though.
The only thing that really struck me about the movie was the ending.
Everything else about the film I mostly forgot.
This is the reading I like.
It doesn't matter whether or not the girl was there. It's just closure.
They do actually meet (Asuna is getting married), but they both accept that their chance has passed.
this, but the visuals were great and watching it on a winter night feels good
In the manga?
Today's /a/ is filled with retarded faggots who don't understand endings of series and movies.
What the fuck are wrong with you guys?
"HURR THE ENDING IS TOO COMPLICALTED FOR ME TOR UNDERTSNAD"
Why didn't they stay in contact through their jap facebook? I'm friends with a bunch of people from middle school thanks to it.
What's there to understand? The MC and her barely know each other anymore, each with entirely different lives. She moved on with her life, and the ending is that he could finally move on too.
he should have fucked her at least.
Get the fuck out of here
>guy acknowledges that he spent his whole life reaching for her
>doesn't actually do anything to achieve that goal
>doesn't even reach for her when she is finally in his grasp, by the pure chance that she passed by him
I wish I could punch characters through my screen.
Except in the ending montage she says that she still hopes they meet again.
calm down anon
You should read the mini-light novel. It gives tons of information about the years and years of fucked up relationships he had and how him letting go was actually a good thing.
Also dat fucking letter at the end man. i cry errtime
This was the best anime film of all time. Nothing can come close. Not even Akira.
>letter at the end
Nigga you better explain
The point is that he realized that he hadn't done anything. He realizes he has to move on.
He learned life goes on
In my opinion, it's simply for old times sake. She's already married/engaged in a relationship IIRC and meeting him would simply be like meeting an childhood ex-boyfriend.
Takaki waiting for the train to pass at the end symbolizes he waited for her, but her not being there symbolizes she moved on and doesn't consider him a part of her life anymore.
Moral of the story: don't trust whores
Definitely the moral I got out of it.
Basically its a letter that the childhood friend wrote to the MC and never gave to him. She finds it many years later and reads it and you also get to see the one he wrote her.
Shit is pretty fucking sad.
Yep, and at the other hand the whore doesn't have ANY issues ''moving on'' from their love. This just proves the fact that women are not sentient beings and are basically nothing more than sluts.
why didnt he just call her or add her facebook
Requesting someone post it. I know someones got it.
Everything by the director is average to terrible
If only his storytelling was as good as his visuals
Same thing happened to me with my first girlfriend
I did nothing too
So I understand.
Get a Waifu
Post it please.
Moral of the story : if you can't see someone, don't build your life around this person.
The MC was just an idiot who couldn't enjoy life. He should either have moved on or tried to see her. He doing nothing just means he's stupid.
B-baka it was a long time ago. I haven't messed with 3D in years.
So why was he satisfied to let her go just by walking past her at the train tracks?
I understand the symbolism, but I've never understood why he just decided to as a character.
Because he literally moved the fuck on
Daily reminder that best girl meets him afterwards and they start dating in my head canon
Despite being fairly long, it is a very simple story.
Just pretend only the first part happened.
This girl is pretty dumb too, why would she waited that long to meet Takaki?
But you did.
>messing with the 3D at all
Japs are beta
This movie was shit. I'm not even going to bother saying why because you won't care. You stopped reading when I disagreed with your opinion and already hit the post number to make a reply telling me why my opinion doesn't matter. If I actually had bothered to type out the reasons why I thought it doesn't deserve the praise that it gets and presented my opinions in a concise logical manner you still would have ignored me because you are a bunch of autistic fucks that don't understand good storytelling or art and just want some generic bullshit story you can project yourself into so that you can live the melodrama vicariously and your shallow empty lives can be filled with emotions for just a moment making your empty trainwreck of a life bearable for a few minutes.
Fuck you /a/
I can't help it that I was born attractive and with passable social skills. I'm much more dedicated than you because I'm like this by choice. It's not by choice for you. I had girlfriends when I was young and stupid and didn't know any better. I have a girl I live with that supports my NEET lifestyle. I could have sex with her anytime I wanted. But I don't because sex is gross. You neckbeards would probably throw yourselves at the first 3D that shown interest in you. You don't have the dedication that I do.
Don't lie to us. We all now that your dream are full of 3D. Repent or your soul will never be saved.
It's okay, anon. Life will get better one day.
This isn't about that, OP. It's nothing that concrete. I think he was just never satisfied with anything in his life, because he missed that chance. More than anything else he couldn't let it go because it was outside circumstances that killed it, he never made the choice to move on. In the end he just realizes he has to, because you can't go chase a married childhood friend and you can't waste your whole life thinking about it either. The world in this anime is pretty firmly grounded in the workings of real life.
Yep. Can confirm am pathetic trainwreck loser.
This movie was very good. I'm not even going to bother saying why because you won't care. You stopped reading when I disagreed with your opinion and already hit the post number to make a reply telling me why my opinion doesn't matter. If I actually had bothered to type out the reasons why I thought it deserves the praise that it gets and presented my opinions in a concise logical manner you still would have ignored me because you are an autistic fuck that don't understand good storytelling or art and just wants some generic bullshit story you can project yourself into so that you can live the melodrama vicariously and your shallow empty life can be filled with emotions for just a moment making your empty trainwreck of a life bearable for a few minutes.
I'm also having sex with your mom. She says hi.
You're more dedicated than ''us'' at what? At being a loser? Please give me a fucking break, and get the fuck out of here you disgusting normal
>tfw no gf
its not complicated
its a shitty ending, plain and simple
besides, your post amounts to little more than 2deep4u
The only thing to get angry about was him not tapping that brown surfer.
I bet Shinkai read Goethe before making this.
I can feel it.
But muh eternal love.
Rampant normalfaggotry right here.
Yeah he really missed out on that.
pls no bully
Here you go.
At forsaking 3D. I haven't had sex in 5 years. I have to have girls take care of me because my parents won't let me be a NEET.
You don't have the dedication that I do.
It's okay anon, I believe in you.
Most people here like 2d because they never had the opportunity to be with 3d. To them they are just compensating for something they couldn't have.
You are truly dedicated to 2d and love for what it is.
It's like NTR to me.
I hate it.
He hates it.
You hate it.
And there is not doujni about it.
>No matter how far you go I will always love you.
>Please, please remember that
Well fuck. You weren't kidding when you said it was sad huh? Don't know what else I expected but now my night's ruined.
Do you have the one he wrote her?
Yeah this letter is pretty cruel. I would not give it to a former lover years later. What a bitch.
OP you do get it right?
The whole point of the movie was that you have to go for it in life, otherwise it will pass you by. That's exactly what the protagonist didn't do, and that's exactly what happened to him.
I can't believe I have to explain this.
You know, I really would hate to ever meet a person who would praise himself for something like this, on an anonymous imageboard. Stop avatarfagging and get out.
>You don't have the dedication that I do.
Say that shit one more fucking time and I will hunt you the fuck down and beat you up.
The only reason you faggots are getting overly sentimental about a letter written by a kid and exchanged between adults is because you have too many regrets.
oh shit, internet tough guy here
are you surprised? We're on /a/.
You don't have the dedication that I do.
You don't have the dedication that I do.
I don't want to meet you either.
Fuck this gay earth
I don't get it. Did they really not have any means to keep in touch?
like the kind of disappointment when the american president ends his speech with "god bless"
you know it's coming, it's still just a reminder of how fucking shit humanity is sometimes
That's it, faggot. You're going down. No fucking excuses now. I am currently pinging your IP and you should expect a black BMW to be parked at your door in about 20 minutes.
Who let this /v/irmin out of his containment board?
Because if he did he'd be fucked by a train?
You will only like this movie if:
1) You're a romantic (in the literary sense)
2) You can relate to the MC
If you don't fulfill one of those criteria you will think it's shit, and will only enjoy it for the wallpapers.
Not to be a dick. But wasn't all this covered in each respective charachter's monologues?
But yeah. The whole point of the movie was Togashi wasn't able to move on with his life and Akari did.
and if you fulfill both a little too hard you'll think it's shit because the MC is just like you and you haven't looked in a mirror in fucking years
Everybody is gay on /v/ and spend their days dreaming of cute trap boys.
yeah that's pretty much it
it's why they shout down any mention of normality or interaction with girls and mask it with "muh sekrit klubb"
Gets me everytime.
Everybody at some point in their lives have some regrets and being able to get past them is a part of growing up, and that evidently we can not do.
I think it's that we all know we're worthless losers that are going no where in life.
C-Can we just g-go back to discussing 5-5cm?
Shut up, I want to talk about my feelings
and yet you don't see the correlation between self loathing and an inability to move on in life?
I wish we still used the word manchild. It's just such a fun word to say.
I liked it. But the train snow scene felt a bit drawn out.
Can we discuss other Shinkai works too? Garden of Words was short but sweet.
The conversation we're having is literally the point of 5cm.
What is there to "move on" from though?
Regrets isn't something that ties you down it's just something that causes you pain.
I liked Garden of Words a lot, what do you think it was about? Letting go and accepting our reality?
But there are certain things that beating yourself up over doesn't help. You have to accept your regrets and move on.
Great movie, surfer girl was best girl.
When I watched it for the first time I was about to finish school and it really captured my mood and feelings at this time. Would even say it helped me through.
And still good for a rewatch everytime. But I think you might need to be able to relate to the stuff that happens in the movie to really enjoy it.
you mean foot fetish: the movie?
sure - if you believe, anything can happen
it's almost the opposite of 5cm
yes but we're not discussing how much of a faggot the MC is, so it gets on some peoples' nerves
More like the opposite I would say.
Because he realised she moved on, and so should he.
It was a stab at the audience. Particularly people like us.
We're the teacher. With all those insecurities. If 5cm was about not being able to move on, then GoW was about letting your fears stop you from enjoying life.
Lid may have a stupid dream, but he at least knows the direction he wants to go.
Oh definitely. If you aren't an obsessive antisocial person then you don't really understand the MC.
Then again, if you're on /a/ chances you are an obsessive antisocial person.
That's impossible if you have nothing going on in your life.
If your life is very passive and you have no motivation or goal, your regrets will torment you day and night.
your regrets are tying you down, because you're constantly reminding yourself of previous failings instead of getting on with life
regrets shouldn't be painful, or plentiful
there's no point getting caught up in what should/could/might have happened in the past, when you have the rest of your life to experience
or to put it another way - your anger at your own past only hurts you, it doesn't actually serve any purpose other than to prevent you living your life and exposing yourself to future pain
this anon gets it
you don't have to regret your past, the only person who wants you to hold on to those regrets is you
the problem there is in the mindset
acting as though that's the inevitable outcome until some hither-to unseen outside force explodes your life open and fixes everything for you
that won't happen
that's not how life works
if your life is empty, you're the only person who can fill it
try instead looking at it from a perspective of ambition and action, as opposed to passivity and victimhood
I'm so fucking tired of being NEET
Knock knock knock
Quit being such a victim then.
I believe in you anon.
Watch happier animu!
>Rocket launch sequence
Such a moving scene
Exactly, you'll end up like the Kotoba no Niwa Sensei.
It was, and I couldn't really figure why.
I guess it's symbolism about how the world and humanity is evolving and growing, while MC is still checking his phone, not growing.
But the way it was "shot" was simply beautiful, so the symbolism didn't really matter. It captures you all the same.
You faggots need a hug?
unless you let yourself
the only person who puts you in that kind of position is yourself
it's not some unavoidable life trap for people who've made a mistake in the past
That symbolism is so painfully beautiful.
The way this scene captured the basic idea of the anime (physical & emotional distance between people and the effort put into reaching someone) really resonated with me. Sumidas narration afterwards is just spot-on.
Dude, it's even explained during the voice over.
Humans are far away from each other, sometimes geographically, sometimes emotionally.
Still we feel the need to reach out to another person, to truly be close to him or her.
The rocket is a symbol of this desperate need to overcome this vast distance, to aim for a distant star impossibly far away while all we might see now is their dead light of yesterday.
Whoops, meant for >>101142210
Some of you need to learn what subjectivity means...
Anyways, it was a pretty happy ending. Everybody was eventually able to move on with their lives.
>unless you let yourself
Sorry. I was implying that too.
If we learn one thing from Surfer-chan. Confess while you still can or you'll never stop regretting it.
>high production values
>bitch nigga pussies out over and over
gib moni pls, wil meak vary good
I love watching all the deepshitters make stuff up. The authors could just do a story with no intended symbolism or deep meanings and you would still go out of your way to come up with your shitty theories of how an empty glass in the background symbolizes loneliness. Pulling shit like this out of your ass also allows you to feel intellectually superior to the plebs who don't see this masterpiece for what it is, even though you are actually retarded. If you hear someone call themselves "artistically refined" then you instantly know they are full of shit.
True moral of the story is don't let "Time" NTR you're childhood friend and fuck her before some future faggot does.
Enjoy your illiteracy, fag.
Yeah, all in all a good ending. They don't show anything that happens afterword because it's not the point of the movie.
Could not have said it better. Don't let time NTR you.
This guy's movies appeal to the same demographic as Hyouka does. That is, to faggots.
Ah. Honestly? I only saw the movie once, about a year ago, and I was crying so fucking hard during that scene, I couldn't hear the narration afterwards.
>Confess while you still can or you'll never stop regretting it.
I was in a situation similar to Surfer-chan's a short time after watching the anime, and did confess. Probably that's why the Cosmonaut episode is my favourite one. I was turned down eventually, but at least I hadn't any regrets afterwards.
Anything else from Makoto Shinkai thats good? 5 c/m was great and I also liked Voices of a Distant Star while not as good as 5 c/m I have mad respect just for all the fucking work he put into that movie.
I've seen mixed reactions for Garden of Words but it doesn't look bad.
By all accounts it's unreasonable, yet we are driven by passion and not reason. It's why you can't "reason" yourself out of feelings of revenge. With sufficient training and growth you can suppress it, but even philosophers who put forth the idea of Freigeist or the pure pleasure from knowledge or self-mastery don't manage this until they hit old age, if ever. You can tell in their writing that they are still bitter as fuck. You could be a stoic or a Buddhist but all these measures are taken post-hoc and is compensation.
Also the pain from regret only comes if it reflects on your present situation, it's not a source of suffering in itself. It's the justification, not the cause.
You talk about ambition when most times these goals are something that exists only in fantasy (especially if you watch a lot of anime and are very imaginative), or something that won't even bring you fulfillment and was just a conviction that your forced yourself to stick with.
You need to know what you're chasing before chasing it, and therein the problem lies.
No one knows what they should be chasing.
>I was turned down eventually, but at least I hadn't any regrets afterwards.
Yeah sure faggot I bet you think about what would have been if she said yes all the time.
Because I do
It isn't, and it's only 45 or so minutes long.
>Some faggots argue that it sucks
>Other faggots take the bait and scream about how it's super beautiful and 2deep
Anybody else think it's a great movie but hate it anyway because it makes you sad as all fuck? It's not that it strikes a cord with me, I'm fairly content but I am crazy empathetic. Spending a third of the movie showing how much they care for each other then spending the rest showing how they can't be together and it's killing the dude inside AND that fucks over the Surfer chick just fucking kills me.
I know it's a good ending but moving on from a shitty situation doesn't make it any less shit.
Also, whoever posted the letters from the LN, I'm going to find you and drown you in my tears you cock.
ITSUDEMO SAGASHITE IRU YO
Kids these days.
Btw, this song isn't hard to play and good to impress chicks.
the idea of a confession of love is really only real world valid up until like year 8 of high school
you guys need to get out and talk to girls more
You have a strange view on what cinema should be.
A movies premise doesn't need to be "make me feel good".
Reminds me of the lyrics to the Monogatari ED.
Kimi no Shiranai Monogatari, the story you never knew.
Same thing for me, but then I became a born again virgin
>you guys must think you're sooo superior enjoying things and taking meaning away from fiction
>you're not superior to me because I'm so cool I don't care about anything!
fuck me you must be great to hang around
>Anybody else think it's a great movie but hate it anyway because it makes you sad as all fuck? It's not that it strikes a cord with me, I'm fairly content but I am crazy empathetic
While I don;t think it's as Avant-Garde as what people ITT say. It's still a good movie and as evident ITT, a good conversation starter.
>You talk about ambition when most times these goals are something that exists only in fantasy
Get fucked. Look at the people hard at work in the DJT or the drawfags threads improving little by little.
>You need to know what you're chasing before chasing it, and therein the problem lies. No one knows what they should be chasing.
Oritip. You decide what you should be chasing. Don't let anyone else influence that decision.
Because sad deep tragic romance.
Fuck 'em. If a character's response to seemingly inevitable tragedy is "it can't be helped" or "let's simply enjoy the time we have together" rather than fighting with everything they have to fix it, fuck 'em. They don't deserve to be happy.
>born again virgin
AKA a slut trying to redeem herself?
>year 8 of high school
what shitty country are you from
You are probably in your early 20s and just realized that you can have relationships with chicks without making marriage plans.
But when motherfucking love hits you you will be eating these words, son.
I said it's good dumbass, I just don't like it because it makes me depressed for hours.
Its too much....
you're trying awfully hard to justify your self hatred with a bunch of pessimistic assumptions about life and human nature.
Welcome to /a/
So from all the descriptions I've been hearing about this anime is it correct to call this "Maximum Beta: The Anime"?
are you underaged or drunk?
you seem awfully angry and self righteous
Because he's likely been on /a/ for many hours without sleep. He got up to take a piss and saw his scruffy face in the mirror and cried. Then he came back to /a/
This isn't NGE, anon.
Just watch the anime and make your own judgement.
>not the guitar only version
No, go watch it and form your own opinion faggot.
Funnily, I was planning on watching The Place Promised in our Early Days
What kind of retinal rape am I in for?
Yes and no. It's 3 parts. Part 2 kinda fits that description, but the other 2 don't really.
Giving my opinion and correcting you when you seem to misinterpret it is self righteous?
Do you know where you are? Dumbass is pretty tame compared to some of the shit I could have called you, dipshit.
one where we count primary as 1-6 and high school as 7-12?
I think we both assume too much.
I assume they mean "Hey anon I love you, please respond."
You assume I mean love is meaningless.
Not really, he had a relationship with another girl and stuff. Who dumped him because he didn't care enough about her as far as i remember It comes out more clear in the novel.
This is why the real world is shit.
Anyone read the manga? Is it just as sad?
This always gets me. It's like a song for introspection. The point where you see the parallelisms between the story in the movie and your own story. You may not have been stuck in a train due to a snowstorm or seen a rocket take off, but you know there's someone whom you've loved for so long and can't forget about so easily.
You wouldn't believe it, it even has an action sequence
He ends up having relationships with I think 3 women.
Which all go to shit.
Uh, not really, no. Too much time has passed since then. Of course I have occasional sentimental moments, but that's another thing.
Back in the day I was in high school, where it was still approriate. But yeah, "starting" with a confession isn't really a thing once you leave high school.
not even the same anon you were arguing with
you're an ass
play nice fellas
I was asking to give the guy a chance to explain why he thinks that way, no need to be like that
Pretty good. Like a movie about the cold war, but in Japan. Last bit of the movie erupts in a fill war.
>But yeah, "starting" with a confession isn't really a thing once you leave high school
Even if you're friends, there still needs to be that point where you tell then the way you really feel and ask them out.
Glasses girl, right?
>Dat attempt by Togashi to sing.
and this is what i mean about my assumptions
good to know i was wrong, and that there are people on /a/ who might understand women and life
What is there to rage about? What is it with /a/ and raging so easily?
Confessions are fucking beautiful. It should be used at all ages.
>why should I read the thread when it will answer all my questions
I am shocked and appalled that you would be so self righteous as to but in like that and angrily call me an ass.
I really enjoyed this movie. It was awesome scenery porn (like the rest of his works), and it was a more realistic relationship that most anime have. Life isn't all sunshine and rainbows, and there isn't always the guy getting the girl ending. Deal with it.
>Even if you're friends, there still needs to be that point where you tell then the way you really feel and ask them out.
if you can't understand how a girl feels without having to have her say "I really like you let's date" then you probably won't make it
you're trying awfully hard to ignore everything that's happened and maintain your ego
I think they call it damage control round here
The point at which the confession happens in a relationship depends on the age though. As people get older this point gets later in the relationship. Probably because when you're young you don't know that many ways to express your feelings. But yeah confessions should happen in every relationship.
Voices of a distant star had such a simple, yet great premise, I say he should remake it with the full eye candy.
More like modern world. Things still beautiful back then.
You at least need to confirm those feelings. Most of the time, you can't just slowly transition from friends to dating without a single word being said.
What a shit movie
They are beautiful, but just confessing out the blue will only scare people away most of the time. A confession only strengthens a common bond, it is not really able to establish it. Before you confess, you have to spend time together, really get to know each other and get to the point where you feel that you're 'more than just friends'.
Hey, tragedies exist for a reason. Not all things in life happen the way you want even if you fight the hardest you can for them.
Why do people become more complacent and beta when they become adults then? Confessions are beautiful, and dancing around the point like you're describing pisses me off. Fucking tell them, lay it out there, and ask for their feelings. People screw eachother around too much in 3D.
I don't know I probably wouldn't like it. One of the most awesome things about it is that Shinkai made that entire thing by himself so I'm not sure how I would feel about a remake.
it's not like you just lock gazes and magnetize toward each other, parts mingling, and suddenly RELATIONSHIPS
but if you're friendzoned it's for a reason, and if there's a mutual attraction it will just kinda happen, you won't sit there and one day come up with a brilliant plan to tell her how you feel and it will all go swimmingly
that's an escapist fantasy that doesn't really happen
if neither one is capable of communication then god help you
you and lelouch are the two worst tasting tripfags ever
where can I get that meth general
By fantasy, I mean things that you imagine in your head that don't exist anywhere in reality. You imagine a flowery and romantic relationship but in real life all you find is cruelty, vanity, and ugliness.
You picture an idyllic new city, but in reality it's beat-up and unfriendly.
I'm just saying to be wary of chasing something that doesn't exist.
>Don't let anyone else influence that decision.
That's obvious, nobody is saying otherwise.
What assumptions? Pessimistic how? Noticing that something is ugly or unpleasant isn't pessimism.
Yeah, I hate myself, but if you had read my post you'll see that's not the reason I'm not doing anything.
I know right.... this ending pissed me off too. What a fucking beta
It's not beta, it's become adult, where you consider every fucking things before doing something. I agree with you though.
This should be the way for all relationships, of course. Back in High School and Middle School, everyone seemed so damn stupid for jumping into relationships like they do.
I have no idea what you're even talking about anymore.
I said 5cm per second is a good movie but I wish I hadn't watched it because reasons.
Some idiot thought I said the movie is bad.
I corrected him and called him an idiot.
He went into damage control.
I called him on it.
You jump in to call me an ass
I sarcastically strawman his first post.
Are you saying I was wrong when I corrected him because he knows my own opinion better then me or some shit? I'm really drawing a blank here.
Nice tangents. No one said the confession would happen like in anime.
Incidentally, I'm studying Japanese to go on a exchange; to get my ass handed over to me; to destroy the idllyic version of Japan in my head.
they don't really
if they do, they're generally ignored, or get stuck with other people who are like that because the real grown ups don't want to deal with their issues for them
understanding body language, context, and taking action is not dancing around the point, that's growing up
That's the feeling you have as a spectator. When it's your it's a whole different story.
>train snow scene felt a bit drawn out
You mean the part where MC keeps getting delayed? Too drawn out or not, it's still incredibly powerful in making you feel the weight of the delays on MC.
This. Jesus christ.
If I had that bad taste I would've killed myself already.
>Nice tangents. No one said the confession would happen like in anime.
purposefully misinterpreting what I post and then acting like I'm the one who doesn't get it is bullshit
>other people are negative losers
>I don't see a way around it
>that's why I'm a negative loser
the fact that other people suck should have absolutely no fucking effect on how you live your life
Don't open the door. It's all a conspiracy!
I've been there, and I was too beta, unable to confess.
The people with courage, though, shouldn't dance and jerk eachother around the point.
You obviously don't understand the crushing weight of dealing with absolute stupidity day in and out. Work a minimum wage job for a year and tell me how much you drink after work each day.
I wish I could be NEET.
Because in all human exchanges you have to consider what the other person wants and what you have to offer them.
Does she having a reason for dating you? No? Then why are you confessing? You're just wasting your time.
What the hell are you talking about?
I'm not a negative loser.
>we are driven by passion and not reason
>It's why you can't "reason" yourself out of feelings of revenge
>most times these goals are something that exists only in fantasy or something that won't even bring you fulfillment and was just a conviction that your forced yourself to stick with.
>You need to know what you're chasing before chasing it, and therein the problem lies.
No one knows what they should be chasing.
basically your whole post is one negative assumption after another that only serves to reinforce your negative world view because you can't handle the idea that you are responsible for your own actions
Can't be much worse than lurking /a/, right?
>ambition is meaningless
>you can't control your own emotions
>life is hard
>but I'm not negative!
But it's only natural to avoid too much attachment, especially in the early stages of a relationship. Even if you think that you really like someone or even love him/her. A confession consists of powerful words, aimed at binding people together. Take marriage for example, it's a thing people consider most carefully because it bears so much weight. But even in 'normal' relationships a lot of time is needed until you can truly say your confession out loud.
you're a fucking wizard aren't you
What about the two people who fuck before even confessing.
"How do you know you love him if you haven't even slept with him?" Is something I've heard too often, and it pisses me off. I think a declaration of your feelings is a much finer way than gradually deciding you like eachother after time. What is that early relationship, then? Casual "maybe I like him, I dunno."
Seems like a bullshit relationship to me, and is likely only a product of wanting a relationship because it's expected of you, not because you found someone that makes you doki doki.
quick, put your coat and hat on, the fact you've never spoken to a girl about their sexual experiences is showing
>ITT:Denial and normalyfaggotry
the autism in this thread is astounding
Anon, don't embarrass yourself.
Not sure why I should be, I was not obsessing over 'pure love' or anything.
>passion not reason
Yeah. We are literally biologically wired this way. Emotion is just an offshoot of the desire to seek pleasure and avoid displeasure. Intellect for a long time only served the former's goal. High intellect is a very recent thing and is certainly not a significant motivator in human decisions.
Have someone really hurt you and try to reason out of it. You are being too quixotic, you can recognize suffering is unreasonable yet still feel it.
See: any break up, any death of a family member/friend, a tornado destroying your house, etc.
I should've used "I" instead of you and no one, but it felt too much like blogging.
By conviction I mean the following: you attend law school because in your youth you convinced yourself of it through seeing a lawyer on TV or something equally trivial, but midway through you realize it's not something you wanted and you only stuck with it because you were too scared to back out. I clarified fantasy earlier.
The chasing part is self-explanatory, it's exactly what it says.
You can't just say "get an ambition"
There has to be something you want first.
I never said any of those things. Learn to read.
Start using proper grammar and sentence structure, you fucking scrub.
>What about the two people who fuck before even confessing.
Who does that?
>idiots think this movie was a love story
This film is fucking retarded.
You better watch this, instead, from the same director.
What the fuck. He sounds ready to never see her again, did the kiss really change his mind that much?
Wasn't that on /a/?
The manga ending has surfer girl find beta boy in Tokyo at the end, it's more hopeful.
The surfer girl was best girl in anything. Akari was a qt but man he shoulda gotten with her.
I think they meet at the end of the manga though.