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Whats up with bullying in Japan? Is it that big of a problem?
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>>10062101
Elevens can't beat other races so they turn on their own.
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NO JAPANESE ARE ALWAYS HAPPY AND NICE TO EVERYONE!!!
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No, it's just prevalent in anime because the target audence can relate.
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it's like that in southeast asia. you get private schools and public schools which both wear uniforms (unlike the US) so bullying and other shit happen in public schools
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>>10062116
What person gets bullied so hardcore that you commit suicide?
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bullying is very common in every school in the world, but only in japan where the victim usually has pretty childhood girl friend or get myterious power and kill all the bully.
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>>10062137
Me.
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>>10062116
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>>10062159
Nice!
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>>10062159
they erased the logos?
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bullying does go out of hand in japan. usually if the teacher is there, they'll do something about it, but that's just asking for more beat down after school ends.
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>>10062137
There was that story about the german kid who posted up a video on youtube around a year or two ago, talking about what bullies have done to him, then the following day he went into his school with a gun and hit them or sth, then shot himself.
So...yeah, it does happen.
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>>10062137
Teenagers are far more likely to commit suicide than any other age. This probably has a whole bunch of reasons, but bullying might help.
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I just got to the scene where they stole his pants. So fucked up ;_;
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>>10062194
That applies to more than Japan you fool.
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>>10062231
no, you dont understand unless you've seen it. you think bullying's bad in your american school? you have NO fucking idea.
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>>10062202

I remember that, the ironic of it is.....He didn't kill anybody just gun shot wounds
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>>10062248
We had gangs at my school.
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finland is winland when it comes to suicide
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>>10062275
ENJOY YOUR LACK OF DELICIOUS SUN
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>>10062248
I'm not American, i'm British and i DO have a fucking idea, i know several friends that have been bullied so don't lecture me.
>>10062252
A friend i know went to his funeral and when she came back she told everyone how the media completely flipped it around apparently and made it out as if she was some psycho that took drugs etc. when he barely hurt anyone and killed himself.
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>>10062273
pretty much, everything you see in anime where this loser gets picked on by assholes... is not an exaggeration. they feck with you, they feck with your friend, they feck with your family, up to a point that some students are forced to move away to a different place because they just cannot handle it and no one can do anything to help. death threats, daily beat up of you, your friends, and your family, destruction of your private residence. everything imaginable is a normal occurence in every school in japan for at least one student.

so yeah.
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>>10062286
lol ok man i bet you just sit in your little cozy home and watch monty python... ooo you're so gangster now/
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>>10062277
I ENJOY MAH ANGST BOOOYYEEEEIII!! FUCK YEAH!
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repost
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>>10062295
>feck
can't unsee
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repost from /jp/
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I'll feck you up, bad.
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Where I come from, bullying is mostly in the form of normal classmates against others, unlike in animu where everyone is nice to each other and shit, except for delinquents. Delinquent classes have their own hard-ass teachers that keep the delinquents in line with all kinds of tricks, so they don't dare bother normal students.
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I felt so bad for this kid. Fucking elevens
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>>10062252
Actually that is good. It made those idiots to think what the hell they did to that guy which made him go nuts. Knowing that they are the reason why the shooting actually happened.
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>>10062310
I do indeed, i also like to drink hefty amounts of tea and i eat crumpets every day.
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OMGSPLOTIONPONIES I DON'T KNOW HOW TO STAND UP FOR MYSELF BECAUSE I'M SCARED OF GETTING HURTUUUUU!

Timidity is a tool used by bullies to cement their power base. Yeah, they gang up or something. Yeah, they're bigger than you. So what? Don't put up with their shit, you won't have a problem. Fucking ambush the guy if you have to, make your point and you never have to deal with it again.

inb4 I don't know what I'm talking about because I OBVIOUSLY never got bullied when I was in junior high (actually it's probably why I'm a compulsive lifter and totally insecure, but hey. I'm posting on /a/, aren't I?)
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>>10062286
Bullying in british society is pretty much nothing compared to most developed countries in the world. It's just full of fucking idiots who take everything to seriously. Somebody gets called an emofag in science class and commits suicide because the world is against them.
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Well /a/ I've decided to take tomorrow off which is why I'm up writing this, and it's not copypasta (or not yet). Anyways, I work at a fast food place (it's a local thing so I won't bother mentioning the name). I was just about ready to close up shop, everyone else had already left, when I noticed a little girl walking around outside. She was just sort of loitering, walking around in circles. I didn't really get a good look at her, but I continued with closing procedures. After I had locked the safes and checked and double checked this and that, I noticed she was still out there. She was just sitting in the rain. I figured she must be lost, so I decided to do my good civilian duty and help her out. Upon going out there I got a good look at her. She looked to be around 7 years old, with short black hair (pageboy style like Rei). I didn't really know her ethnicity, she looked pale white but had some asian features. Her clothes, a pair of jeans and a t-shirt (hardly fitting attire for the weather) were tattered, dirty, soaked, and it looked like she had been wearing them for quite some time (and she didn't smell like roses and candy either). She had her face in her knees just sort of lightly sobbing, and she didn't seem to notice me even though I was fairly close to her. Until I finally said "hi". Then she looked up, and I could clearly see she was blind. This startled me a bit, and now I felt bad. I just let some blind defenseless girl cry outside of my store while I went about my business. Unlike most /a/tards, I have some conscience (and I wasn't actually thinking about sticking it in the pooper). I asked if her if she'd like to come out of the rain. She got up, and I lead her into the store. I asked her if she wanted something to eat, and she nodded her head yes. She didn't answer me
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>>10062386
Bullies aren't impressed by your attempts at manliness.
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>>10062386

Great, may of worked for you, but lets see what happens when you go on a rage against school gangs who like to carry knives, and don't give a fuck of the consequences.
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Hey guys, how do i not got bullied?
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>>10062440
OH GOD ITS 50 CENT HE IS SO GANGSTER AND RUGGED
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about what she wanted though, and that's when it hit me again. "Can you talk?" I asked her, to which she shook her head no and started to sob a bit more. I put my hand on her shoulder (not pervertedly) and said, "It's okay, I'll make you something good." She dried her tears a bit, and I fixed her a sub. I gave it to her, and she devoured it. Since her clothes were in terrible shape, and she acts like she hasn't eaten in forever, I asked her my third question. "Do you have a home?" to which she again gave a meek no. I didn't want to see her cry again, so I told her I'd take her back to my apartment (and no, once again, I wasn't trying to stick it in the pooper). So, in that very short amount of time, I now had this little girl accompanying me home. And I was thinking that she probably should've been snatched up by pedophiles by now being out on the street. She's tattered and dirty, but still pretty underneath. I took her out to my car, and buckled her into the front seat next to me. I think I could tell at that point she wanted more to eat.
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>>10062417
It's true, most bullying over here is basically 'omg lol ur so different looserrr' etc.etc. just really pathetic shit, but there are some circumstances which are pretty bad, of which 3 i've witnessed, so you can't just generalise it completely.
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>>10062466
No sir, I don't like where this is going.
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>>10062386
Your solution reminds me of Ender's Game. Good times.
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>>10062466
>she probably should've been snatched up by pedophiles by now
Yup.
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Teen suicide is the most comedic and hilarious thing in this world. The reasons some teens blow their brains out are sheer comedy gold.

But the best one is, "Oh no, my girlfriend broke up with me. I'll write some whimsical poetry then suck on my dad's shotgun"

WORKS EVERY TIME.
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>>10062101

http://ja.wikipedia.org/wiki/%E6%84%8F%E5%9C%B0%E6%82%AA
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>>10062101

http://ja.wikipedia.org/wiki/意地悪
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>>10062466
Do you eat her later?
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So is it all like Lily Chou Chou then?
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>>10062466
Oh god no..
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>>10062466
F5 F5 F5 F5 F5
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On the car ride to my place I didn't really know what to say, so I was generally quiet. I asked her if she had any parents, to which she responded no, so I suppose they're dead. I asked her old she was and she stuck up 8 fingers (I was close). Every once in a while I would put my arm on her back and rub it a bit, trying to be comforting. I don't really think she noticed or cared. Obviously some bad shit has happened to her, and for all she knows she could end up in my glovebox. Of course maybe 8 year olds don't think thoughts like that, only /a/tards like me. We arrived at my apartment, and I walked in with her. My roomate Luke was up in the living room playing 360 online, and he just gave me a raised eyebrow. Luke wouldn't suspect me of being a pedophile or serial killer, but one of us bringing an 8 year old home isn't normal. So I told her to go into the kitchen and eat what she wants, and I'll talk to Luke. I gave her a gentle nudge in the direction of the kitchen and she went in (they're connected except for a little counter thing between them). He turned off the 360 (oh noes his rankings). "So what's going on?" "I found her outside of [place where I work]" "So you brought her home?" "She's blind, mute, and she doesn't have any parents or a place to stay." "Okay, but she's sleeping in your room."
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>>10062101
>Whats up with bullying in Japan? Is it that big of a problem?

Problem? Nah. It's a vital tool for encouraging conformity. "The nail which stands out most gets hammered down first" and all that.
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And with that, he turned on his 360 again. We were friends, but we made it a priority not to pry in each other's business. I went back into the kitchen to find my loli friend sitting down with a bag of chips she found. I realized that I forgot she's blind and has no idea what my kitchen's layout is. I asked her if she wanted something else, and she nodded her head yes. I thought of the only thing I could, and grabbed a paper and pencil. I put the pencil in her hand and pressed it down on the paper. I had no idea if she could write or not, but she wrote down a rough sort of scribbly word which I made out to be "sandwich". So I put together and sandwich with anything I could find, salami, cheese, etc. I didn't think she would be a picky eater. She inhaled it pretty much, and it was at this point I remembered she smelled like somebody had used her hair to clean their colon. She needed a bath, and since she was blind I would have to be the one to give it to her. I said "How about we get you clean?" and she nodded yes. I wondered how long it's been since she's bathed. Luke looked back at me and just shook his head, so I put my hands up in the sort of "What else am I going to do?" motion, and followed her into the bathroom.
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Doesn't everyone in Japan know Judo or Karate?
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Why are we copypasting Blindmute Loli here?
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>>10062550
>>He turned off the 360 (oh noes his rankings)
lol'd

I wonder if this is all real
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>>10062566
I see. That makes sense.

Bullying is just a tool for society. That would explain why no one wants it to go away.
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>>10062433
>>10062466

I love this story! http://www.wikichan.org/index.php/Blindmute_Loli
Oh snap, its been updated... hooray!
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I peeled her clothes off of her, and put them on the ground for later burning. I grabbed the soap and washed her, she didn't seem to object to me doing this. I got her as thoroughly clean as I could, and I could tell she was getting very tired. I dried her off, and her eyes were shutting so I carried her to my room. Walking out of the bathroom carrying a naked loli in my arms, Luke gave me another look. A look like, "Man I've been minding my business all night but what the hell are you doing?" I payed him no mind and carried her to my room. I put a pair of my boxers on her and a t-shirt of mine and laid her on my bed. I put the quilt over her and she settled immediately into the bed. She looked like she was the most comfortable she's been in a long time. I didn't know where she had been sleeping for the past bit, but it was probably wasn't ideal. I sat down on the edge of the bed and popped my shoes off and just gave a sigh. Not really of frustration, I was just disillusioned with what was going on. I went out of the room and turned the light off (she was already fast asleep by now) and went out to Luke. We played some Perfect Dark and discussed some chick, ignoring the obvious topic.
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After I got finished with him, I realized this was probably /a/'s specialty and decided to write it up. I don't really know what I should do with her. I was considering taking her to the police station, but I began wondering. Why would she run away from home? Maybe she has some physically or sexually abusive father at home who's just going to go and claim and her and beat her or molest her again. She said her parents were dead, but that might not be entirely true. And I began wondering if I technically kidnapped her. She could just be some kid that ran away and if her parents raise a ruckus could I get in trouble for doing a good deed? I hope not. I do need to get some sleep though, so I'll be going to bed soon. I've decided to take the day off tomorrow, to figure out who she is and I think she might have a little cold (I sound like a mother already!). So yeah, no pooper sticking, sorry for wasting your time /a/.
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>>10062604
No wonder this all seemed farmiler.
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It'll turn into a Bel-Air.....

$10,000
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>>10062433
>>10062466
>>10062550
>>10062579
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>>10062617

The greatest story ever told, just like it was 8 months ago.
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>>10062636
Welcome to 4chan.
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>>10062137
A pussy.
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at least the blind/mute girl knows the way to the kitchen
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So, whatever happened to nurse-kun?
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>>10062648
..thanks for the welcome. It's nice to know that Anonymous is so friendly?
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>>10062101
Bullying is a problem everywhere, not just Japan, silly weeaboo.
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>>10062417compared to most developed countries in the world

Wooow...
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>>10062736
Everywhere doesn't have so many suicides because of it.
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>>10062218
The fact that we have teenagers killing themselves is a huge fucking problem.
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>>10062774
Because they whine and whine and think everything is against them when its not.
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>>10062248
Bullying IS bad in American schools. We have school shootings now, what the fuck does that tell you? That shit isn't normal.
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The Japanese don't think much of suicide because they don't believe in Jesus Christ.
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>"So Luke, can you honestly say you can tell this little girl to leave? She obviously hated it at the children's home, if she goes back she might just run away again. Anything could happen to her, she could get sick, she could get picked up by a pedophile--" "She's not already picked up by a pedophile?"
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>>10062806
But didn't Jesus commit the ultimate suicide?
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Ok /a/, now recommend me some good shows with bullying in it!

I played Yume miru Kusuri and the bullying there was awesome.
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>>10062820
No he more rolled over and said "hey i'm gonna die for your sins"
Then he died.
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>>10062386
Shit's a lot more serious in high school than Junior High. It's called "know your limitations".
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bullying just gets an excessive amount of media time because the rest of japan's societal problems aren't huge awww-shit-we're-doomed instances. Really their biggest problem right now is the shrinking population, and it's hard to make people feel strong emotions about something that isn't immediate.

tl;dr - sensationalism, because real news is boring.
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>>10062275

Damn, I lol'd. Hard.
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/a/..... FUCK YOU, YOURE NOTHING BUT A COMMON THUG! A STUPID BULLY WHO CANT GET DATES!
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>>10062836
H2O... oh wait you said good nevermind then
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European kids get bullied because their parent's secondhand smoke gets them addicted to nicotine and Japanese kids get bullied because people who are different are universally looked down on.

American kids don't get bullied because there are more guns than people here.
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>>10062799
Everything is against you, people may not have teased you but the Establishment still is.

>>10062902
shrinking population is good. We have an issue called global overpopulation, and the Japanese are packed like sardines into cans enough as it is.
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>>10062958
>American kids don't get bullied

lolwut
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>>10062966
It's the truth, at least relatively speaking. Columbine did a lot of good for our country.
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>>10062958

American kids get bullied. Because of the guns, they return to school and kill 10 of their buddies.
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ins't /jp/ for this stuff? seriously no wonder board is slow if people don't even post related stuff there...
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Compared to Europe, Americans don't even have bullies. Bullying exists here, but it's in a limited capacity.
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>>10063034
Mind you, I'm saying this as one of the kids who was bullied relatively close to said an hero status. Still, the horror stories I've heard from other countries are worse.
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bullying always seemed so weird to me
I beat the shit out of everyone that ever got physical with me.
I remember pinning one guy down and just asking him "Why? You know I am stronger then you what the fuck is your problem?"
I was never a weak or sickly kid so I just don't understand it.
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What's all this about smoking? I thought Europeans weren't really into the cancer sticks.
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>>10063129
No everyone is into cancer sticks here.
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>>10063129
...

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Ever been to France?
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This is not /a/ related go to /jp/ for fucks sake.
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>>10063142
Scotland only. Don't you people have really harsh laws against secondhand smoke. I always thought smoking was more of a Republican thing.
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Being beaten up isn't the same as being bullied you know.
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in b4 Anonymous of trauma
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No one committs suicide because any one single thing.
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In America, the vast majority of bullying these days is limited incidences of verbal abuse. To be honest, the jocks have for the most part stopped being jocks and girls need sharp things to hurt people physically... so yeah.
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High school - most meaningless years of your life.

Do you people really give a shit how much you/everyone else did or didn't get beat up? Move on.
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>No one committs suicide because any one single thing.

False, all people who commit suicide do so solely because they are a bitch.
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>>10062863
it's that kind of mentality that allows bullies to keep bullying you. It also *attracts* them.

It's also a good way to be a failure at life, but again, this is /a/, so i think that's a prerequisite.
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All it takes is one really bad day.
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>>10062820
>>10062846
He did the suicide by cop thing with the Romans.
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European kid gets called fatty - laughs and insults them back.

Japanese kid gets called fatty - commits seppuku.

American kids gets called fatty - buys a gun and shoots 50 people.
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>>10063309 european...

no, we don't fight back anymore..taking it and snapping 30 years later is the thing to do
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>>10063309
>European guy gets on an anonymous internet messageboard, pretends he isn't a weakling with a pitiful life.
>Japanese guy gets on an anonymous internet messageboard, pretends he isn't a weakling with a pitiful life
>American guy gets on an anonymous internet messageboard, pretends he isn't a weakling with a pitiful life

Oh hi, I upgraded your trollpost
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>>10063309
Bullshit, Eurofags are as stab happy as they come.
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>>10063279
bullying is almost always brought upon by the person being bullied. people want to be all sentimental about it but I managed to make it through high school being the shortest person in the class until my senior year and being overweight to boot yet I never ONCE got "bullied".

Highschool, interestingly enough, is a lot like prison. If someone wants to push you around, fight back and after that no one will fuck with oyu.
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>>10063279
No, it is not the victim's fault that they are bullied. People are to be held responsible for their own actions, and people who bully are faggots, end of story. They have failed as human beings and their parents did a shit job of raising them, simple as that.
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baw. bullying is bad everywhere. go lift some weights, prick.
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>American kids gets called fatty - buys a gun and shoots 50 people.

Score one for the yanks.
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>>10063371
you cant place the blame soley on the actor when the kids who get bullied are facilitators of that action.
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>>10063309
>European kid gets called fatty - laughs and insults them back.

Wow... just... wow.
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>>10063351 bullying is almost always brought upon by the person being bullied.

No. Not really. Unless you consider being quite weak/different a suficient reason to be bullied.
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>>10063351
short kids are always so annoyingly hyper and over-compensate for everything. Its just a hassle to bully them.
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Holy fuck, mods and janitors need to fucking get on the ball this has nothing to do with /a/ you fagots go BAWW on your blogs.
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>>10063405
this is why bears kill each other.
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>>10063393
Holocaust much?
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>>10063427
I;d rather have this thread than 50 mankoto and gurren lagann threads.
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>>10063393
Is being quiet and timid facilitating bullying?

Maybe if they could work up the nerve to stand up to their tormentors a couple of times then the bullying would stop. That doesn't mean it's their fault that they ARE being bullied.
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>>10063452
Doesn't make a difference this has nothing to do with /a/ in the slightest, don't like it find a different board.
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>>10063393
Most kids who are bullied are harmless and misunderstood, so people who are looking to conform band together and fuck around with the dude who is by himself.

The people who go around saying that the victims are the ones who are at fault, saying they were "asking for it" are just assbags who fucked with other people when they were younger and decide to conjure up a way to live with themselves with false justifications.

You cannot be a bully an not be an antagonist at the same time.
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>bullying is almost always brought upon by the person being bullied

This is a level of stupid I feel the need to admire. Good job.
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>>10063482
Its about how bullying is portrayed in anime.
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I was never physically bullied, but I was ridiculed for being so damn quiet and anti-social. Wait, how is this related to /a/?
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>>10063436
I don't know about you, but last time I checked I wasn't a bear, and different rules for natural selection are applied to solitary predators and actual societies composed of sentient people.
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>>10063463
Standing up to the bully won't even necessarily fix the problem either. Most likely make it worse.
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>>10063506
Suuure it is.
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>you cant place the blame soley on the actor when the kids who get bullied are facilitators of that action.

You make this sound like a S&M relationship. Hawt.
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>>10063493
he's right, actually. most people being bullied are asking for it by being submissive faggots and not respecting themselves, ie. being fat and disgusting or acting like a retard.

anyway this shit belongs in /jp/.
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>>10063514
It most cases it will either do nothing or make it better.

It only makes it worse if the bully/bullies are total phsychos
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>>10063463
You keep forgetting that it's the TORMENTORS who are the problem. They're the one with the "power", and they need to be held accountable for their actions.

Fighting is against school rules and doesn't truly solve anything, especially when people are hard-headed and fucking stupid when they're young and resort to violence and end up ruining the rest of their futures because of it.

Punkass kids need to be disciplined and put in their place while they are young, because then all they do is grow up to become assholes that are the cancer killing society. You know that boss who makes your job really shitty? He's bullying you and he's an asshole for it. It isn't your fault and you didn't deserve it.

People need to be more sympathetic. Humans are fucking cruel, and it's something we as a species need to correct.
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ITT we are experts about the japanese society and up to date with their education system.
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>>10063531
Bullied: Oh hit me more big daddy.
Bully: Yeah, you like that don't bitch.
Bullied: MORE MORE MORE! Hit me harder.
Bully: YES YES! I'M COMING!
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>>10063514
not necessarily. I used to be bullied in junior high by this huge fat kid that everyone was scared of because he was royalty (but more like a lol 4rth generation kind of thing. damned King Saud and his spreading his fucking genes everywhere) so he could pretty much get away with anything

anyways short story: he bullied me and a bunch of guys for months in junior high. I then started to stand up to him and we got into a bunch of fights. eventually he stopped bullying me and we even started to hang out (though he was still a major dick most of the time). the other kids who took it meekly? they were his torture victims all the way to the end of high school
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>>10063531
So the fact that you're not an aggressive person is asking to be bullied?

You are the cancer killing civilized society. If someone isn't messing with you, you don't mess with them. Just because they seem "weak" doesn't mean you have the right to mess with them.

If you do, then by that logic, the stronger people that respect decent society should be able to break every bone in your body and put you down for good.

Which doesn't sound so bad in itself.
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Ok this is going to end in a story of your life thread.
So in anime bullying is a great way to get a viewer to sympathize with a character, i don't think it reflects society since the japanesse seem to value education above all i can't see them going out there way to bully someone.
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>>10063514
Especially when it's a gang of people fucking with you, not just one person.

How the fuck are you supposed to fight a group of 5 people effectively, not seriously injure them, and not get fucked up in the process? Unless you're a brown belt in some martial arts, you're going to have a tough time.

Violence is fucking stupid.
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Wanna know bullying? Go get bullied in Africa and weep. Enjoy have the fuck beaten out of you. Every.Single.Day. until you're old enough to beat the fuck out of the guys below you.
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>>10063556
Ah. I always figured that if they if a bully stopped bullying you after you stood up to him a couple times, then he wasn't truly a bully. If they were really bullying you, they would be bullying you in order to get you to stand up to them, to piss you off.
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All I know is that when anon met Antoinette, many of us got off for the first time on softcore snuff.
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ITT we get trolled.

Children are bullied because they are asking to be bullied. AMIRITIE?!
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>>10063563
all i'm saying is if you don't want to get bullied, quit being a faggot bitch. i never said it was right to bully "weak" people, but it's going to happen. welcome to the real world.
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>>10063556
You should have kept fucking him up, your friend is an asshole and you're a douche for hanging out with him.
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>>10063622
Oh we should just make the genocide of assholes and idiots legal. That would solve everything.

See? Bullying turns you into a sociopath. I know where you sleep.
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>>10063601
if you punch him in the face (hint: aim for the nose, its very soft + a direct hit severly hampers the ability of the person to fight back) then thats pretty much it. Even if you get beat up that time, in the future, that person will go pick on someone else because its not worth it to go after someone who is going to fight back every time. Again, like in prison, its not about winning, its about making picking on you a big enough inconveinience that that person will move on.
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>>10063618
Yes. I got bullied and I fought back. Got my ass handed to me but that told them "Hey this guy will fight back if we bully him" and they go pick on easier submissive kids.
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When will this thread become unbumpable?
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>>10062996
You dumb fuck, it made it worse. Read a paper.
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>>10063658
Except in real society, the bullies are probably black or mexican gangbangers and will pull out knives or other instruments of harm.

And you'll get put down for good.
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>>10063622
Yep, I totally agree with you. It's good to stand up for yourself by fighting back as a child who has not grown any muscles at 14 -- merely because he can't! Indeed, it does makes perfect sense to fight back and stop being a FAGGOT BITCH.
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Seriously, it seems like this thread is just full of idiots who can't accept that they even partially brought upon poor treatment in their teens due their own manner or actions. Or still are teens and can't.

Sure, bullies are faggots. Here's the thing, though; if you manage to mature, you'll probably gain some understanding that you weren't just bullied because everyone else had a problem. You did too.

I'm willing to bet everyone in this thread at some point bullied someone else, too. Unless you're at the very bottom rung of the latter, there's someone you've ridiculed to make yourself feel better. It's a bad habit, but just about everyone is prone to it occasionally. Talking about how bullies are the scum of the Earth or whatever, just because they fell into a bad habit to feel better about themselves, doesn't make a whole lot of sense - had all of you been in a similar social situation, many of you'd have turned to the same addictive behavior.
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>>10063248
"Jocks", "assholeS", whatever you want to call them, still exist in full force.
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>>10063535
If the bullied fight back then unless they kick the shit out of them, the bully will up the ante to make the bullied submissive once more.
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>>10063601
so you're saying he was tsundere for me? ick thanks for the mental image

>>10063624
we were never really friends. just we would hang out at the back of school and smoke cig BECAUSE OH MY GOD IT WAS HARD CORE. yeah it was stupid. But thats how it was and the other were just class mates so I never really thought about helping them.
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give me your lunch money scrub.
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>>10063670
I'm black an I lived in Washington state where they aren't many gangs so my situation was different. In situation where you know these guys are going to pull a knife out it's better to step down and go to a teacher who you know would get shit done.
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>>10063674
Just because you bullied to get some self esteem doesn't mean that other bullies out there aren't doing it just for lulz.
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>>10063674
Because you are different, it's your fault. You could be reading manga in class like a fucktarded weeaboo, and that's a que for someone to walk up and bash your face in, yes?

Thanks for setting back human evolution by uncountable centuries.
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>>10063705
I think we all agree dealing with an armed individuals is a completely different situation from dealing with the regular common bully who will just try and box you and use superior size + strength.
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>>10063705
Teachers are pussies these days also because one wrong move and your job is on the line.
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>>10063726
If you know of a bully who goes out alone and picks on other people without backing (you know, the usual coterie of snickering sycophants), give him a thumbs up for originality. Most do it with others around who are going to praise them for their behavior, making them feel like they've actually accomplished something and belong. It's all about self esteem.
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Bah, either take it or pull it out and shoot it. Bunch of tough guys here with sick fantasies who don't understand how black and white these situations are. I was lucky enough to escape from the womb as a nearly full grown man with thick eyebrows, but those that weren't don't have the luxury of 'standing up for themselves'.
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>>10063685
where's your sense of justice?
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>>10063759
And I'm sure that's what happens every time someone gets bullied rite? Just minding their own business when WHAM X bad thing happens? Please.
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>>10063574
LOL whut? Bullying is a HUGE problem in Japan that the suicide rate for teenagers risen in the past few years. What's so fucked up about it that even TEACHERS would join the fray. Plus most teachers don't have the power to stop it anyway, especially when the parents of the bully CAN'T believe that their darling Sachi or Hiroyuki would ever harm a fly, so shit doesn't get done. I think they need a few Onizuka to set shit straight.

>>10063674
>>I'm willing to bet everyone in this thread at some point bullied someone else, too.

I think the only time I got bullied was like 4, with some dude. I showed that motherfucker up by throwing a toy cash register upside his head. Good times, good times.

But I usually get playfully teased by others, but wasn't bullied since preschool. Actually, I was sort of popular in high school.
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At my school, teachers were forced to turn a blind eye. Students would attempt to revolt against teachers who tried to combat them by making false accusations, and smearing their image in the local community. This stopped in the last year when CCTV cameras were installed, though -- hard evidence could be used to expel students. Who cares about this 'Orwellian' shit you hear people rant about on Slashdot against cameras? Teachers were generally powerless to teach their class, and in my eyes it turned out for the better.
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>>10063806
No, it usually starts by someone deciding they need someone new to fuck with, so they lead the poor bastard into it.

For the most part, who you are and your little teenage behaviors aren't the reason that people fuck with you. They fuck with you because they have the time and they think you have the time.

They also have superior numbers, so you don't have much of a choice. Nobody will help you, as students are just happy to not be the sacrifice and teachers just want to reach retirement.

And it's somehow the subject's fault?
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>>10063674 Unless you're at the very bottom rung of the latter, there's someone you've ridiculed to make yourself feel better.

I've never done that.
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>>10063674 Unless you're at the very bottom rung of the latter, there's someone you've ridiculed to make yourself feel better.

I've never done that and I know I'm not at the bottom rung either.
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>>10063787
>Bah, either take it or pull it out and shoot it.
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>>10063890
goddamn, someone buy this man a 'best human being ever' sash and a lollipop.
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>>10063911
I will never get used to people who fail to capitalize their sentences. I'm a regular poster on gurochan and such laziness still makes me sick.
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>>10063890
taste of a liar.jpg
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>>10063849
Making every statement a black and white declaration for one extreme is what makes you so annoying. I'm not arguing that anyone is at fault for getting bullied, but being a victim of circumstance doesn't necessarily make everyone who's aggressed anyone else human trash.

I'm tired of mentalities that demand one party is right as rain and the other is pure evil. It only works that way in fiction. In reality, people are just repeating the weaknesses of human nature because they're too immature to reject the urge. For kids, bullying is much like a drug addiction - no, they shouldn't succumb to it, but that doesn't make it as easy as you think and it doesn't make them all as horrible as you think either.
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>>10063923
>>10063911
It's not all that remarkable, guys. Not every loser here was also a sexually confused sadist.
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>>10063890
I've made fun of plenty of people, but I don't go and do it to some random guy's face because then I would have been a fucking dick. It's only funny when you're doing it to your friends, and they do it back and then it's bonding and shit and not dickishness.
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I used to get bullied in school because of my song writing abilities. It all ended when I prayed to the spirit in the sky and he blessed me with the power of his only son Jesus Christ. I made the ones who bullied my slaves through brainwashing and got them to drink my special Kool AID.
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>>10063961
lol, vilifying sexual confusion and making a sweeping claim about how easy it is not to ridicule others in the same breath.
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>>10063986
Fuck yes, you are the best bullied ever.
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wow this thread is still going
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In grade school I was the one to do the kicking, but I didn't consider it as a form of bullying, I'm not sure, but somehow I thought it's a fun for both sides. One day I almost cut off with a scisors a little finger of my friend (I didn't mean it, it was more of an accident, I just wanted to scare him). Later, I was in four other schools and each time I was the one to end up being bullied. I still don't have the slightest idea how did I end to be the one.
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>>10063993
>vilifying sexual confusion

I'm vilifying sadism. You know, whips and gimp masks sadism. I'm not saying it's inherently wrong, just that little boys should generally not force other little boys to participate.
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>>10064055
you reap what you sow
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Why is this topic so /jp/ in appearance? I love how the 'best' topics are always off-topic.
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>>10064062
Ridicule is still ridicule, you've already proven yourself wrong
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I knew a bully who used to rub himself while he kicked kids he'd gotten onto the ground. His dad was in jail, so it's okay, though.
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>>10064101
So you're saying that it's hypocritical to say that bullies are bad for hurting people? There's a difference between the occasional smoke and a six pack a day habit, regardless.
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>>10063531

it's like saying that rape victims brought it upon them because they dressed like sluts. yeah sure.
truth is, bullying is a violation just like rape. if i want to interact with you in any way i'll fucking ask you.
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>>10062295
That happened a while ago in Sweden. I dont remember the details too well. The bullies were terrorising a family and they crossed the line one night. They were outside family's house, armed with bats or whatever it was. Dad was in panic and went out with a gun, shooting anything that was moving outside of their house. He ended up killing one of them and later on they all went to court.
Apparently it had been going on for a while.
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>>10064196
I'm responding to you, is this rape yet
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>>10064131
No I was saying that you were wrong in saying that its easy not to give shit to someone further down the ladder than you, because you'll do it consciously or subconsciously
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>>10063248
Agreed, in my high school there wasn't any bullying, though the girls were bitches to eachother and a guy got labeled "boner boy" when he got hard in the locker room showers.

I suspect bullying is only really common in low income schools in the US nowadays. Poor people (and minorities!) never seem to quite grasp what it means to be a decent human being.
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>>10063309
This is very true.
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This thread makes me want to go out into the city and fight some evil.
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>>10064225
Inevitably, but that's human nature, something we are at least 'capable' of confronting. Embracing an evil is far less understandable than admitting it's present. Bullies are those who choose to feed that desire consciously and I for one have always considered 'hunger' to be another aspect of sexuality/violence. Thus, I referenced sadomasochism as a similar function, where a bully develops a codependent relationship with their victims as a product of conscious choice.

Then again, I'm lazy to an extreme that overrides all habitual activity, so what do I know?
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Standing up for yourself won't get bullies to stop beating you. The only way to stop it is to give them an even easier target than you.
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>>10064296
>This is very troll.

Fixed your typo.
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I only got bullied when I was in a Christian school. When I went to a public school it stopped.

Christians are hypocritical pricks.
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>>10064366
Catfights.
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>>10064270
You're not politically correct, motherfucker. I'm going to SMEAR YOU ON FOX NEWS.
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>>10064270
>though the girls were bitches to eachother
Oh God, girl 'bullying' is pretty insane. Especially when it's all same-sex school.
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>>10064373
FOX isn't politically correct
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Ijimekko?
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>>10064373
Better close your blinds and get a dog.
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Girls bullying eachother is my fetish.
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>>10064371
Oh no, nothing like that. It was hardly ever physical since fake nails got banned at our school. The worst fight that broke out that i can remember was a video of a girl giving some guy a BJ being sent round phones to the whole year or sth cause it was some other girls bf? I DON'T KNOW it was hilarious shit though.
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>>10064450
/r/ source of this
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I saw a girl beat the everliving shit out of another girl once, sent her to the hospital. Bitch was scary.
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>>10064410
no news is politically correct
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>>10064450
mine too, but material is rare. some souces for me?
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>>10064482
Well, I'd still go to CNN or MSNBC to really blast someone for being non-PC
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>>10064458
That sounds a lot more humiliating than anything that's happened to anyone in this thread
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>>10064470
>>10064483
Unbalance X Unbalance.
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>>10064470
>>10064483
Unbalance x Unbalance, I stopped reading it because I got annoyed with "LOL TEACHER/STUDENT LOVELOVE" and not enough school fightan story. I guess it might have gotten better later on.
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>>10064494
That's what female bullying is all about. Men are pathetic, all they think about is breaking someone physically a couple of times. Women are out to break your soul.



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