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What's it like to hold a girl tightly in one's arms?
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I don't know, /a/non, I don't know... ;_;
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Amazing.
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>>100462815
Feels like heaven
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>>100462815
it's been a while since I've seen this posted
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>>100462929
It really was...
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Like coins of milky salt and bags.
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I dunno, I can hug my mom tomorrow.
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>>100462815
What is this, a picture for ants?
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I don't want to have sex with a girl. I just want to hold her close. Is that so much to ask?
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Does /a/ have girlfriends?
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>>100463031
no.
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Nice blog guys.
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>>100463138
Welcome to /a/, new friend.
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>>100463138
Lurk more
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>>100462964
I figured it was the one with the girl shopped out as I was scrolling by until I stopped.
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>>100463031
>Does /a/ have girlfriends?
I have a Tenga tough
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>>100463031
A lot of us have, but most of us had bad experiences. At least the vocal ones. To answer OP's question, it does feel really comforting, similar to hugging your mother or your best friend, but something about it being a significant other makes it different in a good way.
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>>100463031
I do and she seems to be cross at you and your bullshit.
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>>100462979
Kill yourself
>>>>/tumblr/
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>>100463207
>A lot of us have
implying

>similar to hugging your best friend
;_;
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>>100463240
A lot of us means a good portion of us. Not all, but enough for it to be noticeable.
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>>100462815
>3D
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>>100463207
Where does an /a/non meet girls?
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>>100462815
It feels better if you are actually in love with them, but I've almost forgotten by now.
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>>100463307
cool meme got any more
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>>100463340
>meme
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>>100463278
So when you fap it looks like your dick is pertruding from inside of her?
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>>100463369
you keep memeing me out bro :/
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Just fucking report you don't have to reply.
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>>100463338
we don't
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>>100463412
>we
...

:D
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>>100463338
Well you can meet girls online, but that's a real roll of the dice. If you want to meet women in person, the best thing to do is be where they are. Most people meet in school, or at work. Otherwise, go somewhere social, like a convention or something. If you really don't like to be around big groups, you can try making small talk in stores where you buy things you enjoy, be it media, food, or clothing. If you just flat out do not leave your house unless law requires it, then you really don't want a girlfriend. And that's okay. Sometimes the grass just seems greener on the other side. But the truth of the world is that if you want a companion, you have to seek one, not wait for them to fall out of the sky.
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I scrolled by this and almost expected an old style ronery thread. I should have known better.
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>>100463482
>>>/b/
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>>100463482
>Most people meet in school, or at work.
>tfw working it IT department

>convention
yeah no
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>>100463384
>>100463471
This isn't helping your viewpoints be accepted on this board.
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>>100463412
>we
As expected from a represent/a/tive.
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>>100463543
>thinking i give a cr*ap about what you think

LOL.......
whatever man. here's a pic of tomoko spinning REALLY fast in a chair, its probably the only good thing thats going to be in this shit thread anyway. alright im out, peace.
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>>100463541
First of all, working in IT can be a social job. Assuming people don't just leave the room while you bang their machine with a wrench for 5 minutes. Second, I don't like conventions either, but people go there, and they like the things you like.

Alternatively, you can just be defeatist and not bother trying to meet people. Which is a valid way to live, in my opinion.
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>>100462815
this is some KC level shit
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>>100463643
>Assuming people don't just leave the room while you bang their machine with a wrench
I do programming work in front of my screen 8 hours a day
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>>100463643
>IT
>social

Heh
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A girl's boobs against chest feels kind of nice.

I've never hugged a flat chest girl before, I wonder what it's like?
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>>100463687
That leaves you with 16 hours where you aren't doing that.

>>100463733
It's like hugging a girl without boobs
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>>100463733
You can feel her heart beating.
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>>100463733
Like hugging a boy
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>>100463733
Ever hugged a little boy? It feels like that.
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>>100463775
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>>100463770
>That leaves you with 16 hours where you aren't doing that.
There's still the problem that I don't even know how and where to meet people, because going out alone sucks and I don't have anyone to go with.
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>>100463771
The best.
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Nice thread OP, but you might want to check these repeating digits.
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>>100463912
This.
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Rollin' for dubs.
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>>100463532
Man, I know those threads are pretty much blogging but it has been a really good while since I've seen one of those threads without obnoxious faggots.
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>>100463912
You telling me you don't have a single friend who you hang out with casually? You work completely isolated from other people? You can find things to talk about with people. If there's just someone who does the same job as you, you can at least talk about that. Offer someone a stick of gum and ask them how their day was. Maybe you don't actually care all that much, but that's not what being polite or social is really about. The whole point is to communicate to another person that you want to form a connection of some sort.

If you run into someone you know, say hi and ask how they're doing. Nobody can dodge that question. If you're stepping out for lunch, ask if they want you to pick them up something where you happen to be going. They might appreciate the thought, even if they say no.

You don't have to be super close friends with someone to just hang out at work during breaks. And eventually you're bound to run into someone who shares similar interests. Maybe it's not anime, maybe it's something else. Either way it's a step forward.
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>>100464092
thanks, please look forward to daily updates
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>>100464092
follow 4 follow?`
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>>100464128
>You telling me you don't have a single friend who you hang out with casually?
Welcome to /a/. I last had someone to hang out with about 5 years ago.
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>>100464128
>You telling me you don't have a single friend who you hang out with casually?
No. Not a single person.

>You work completely isolated from other people?
No, but everyone has their own lives after work. I don't get invited to hang out after work or on weekends.
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>>100464128
> talking to strangers casually
Please don't underestimate me. I get Tomoko-level awkward even in front of people I already know.
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>>100464128
Don't listen to this guy, normalfags like him usually think that if socializing is easy for them, it must be easy for everyone else and give crap advices like this one.
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>>100464200
>5 years ago.
Meet some new friends. Even online friends count as friends. Hanging out can just be sitting in skype chat, talking about stupid shit and posting image links.

>I don't get invited to hang out after work or on weekends
Try being the one who invites someone else. And like I said, everyone goes home after work, but they all do the same shit you do. They change out of their work clothes, sit on the couch or browse the internet. They're bored. All you have to do is say hi, talk about each other, find something you both enjoy, and propose enjoying that thing in tandem.
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>>100463912
Holy fucking shit, just to end this shitty thread, here.
Go to the next con in your area. Yes, they suck and almost everyone has shit tastes at them, but some don't. When you see someone cosplaying a series you know, tell them they did a good job but don't end the conversation there and just walk off. Ask them questions, whether it be about the series, about the work they put into their costume, for fucks sake, it could be about the god damn carpet. Just keep it flowing for a bit, then ask them if they just want to walk around the convention for a bit. It sucks having to do it alone, but really, it isn't that bad. The biggest hurdle is the first step.

Advice from experience:
Don't choose the hot ones, they will either just take it the wrong way or just say thanks and try to keep walking.
Don't follow them around the entire time. After a bit, get their number and meet up with them some other time. Unless there are really good vibes going, then enjoy the time together.
A good time to try this out is right before lunch time, then you can use the excuse of grabbing food to talk a little bit, it is actually more natural than it seems in thought.
Please, for the love of god, don't take rejection too hard. It happens to EVERYONE.
Act interested in what they say, even if you aren't.

I'm done. Please delete this thread now.
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>>100464351
>and give crap advices like this one.

> just be yourself
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>>100463771
I imagine actually hugging a girl and experiencing this as well as the pure heat from her chest and genuine emotion would be the most fulfilling moment in life.
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>>100464357
>Meet some new friends. Even online friends count as friends.
This is impossible for someone like me. Even on the internet, I get panic attacks when I try to talk someone without the Anonymous handle.
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>>100464393
If you are socially retarded, being yourself is like shooting yourself in the foot, dumbfuck.
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>/a/ - Cams & Meetups
I hate all of you. Bunch of pretenders. You'd disown everything that makes you who you are at the first possibility of getting 3D pussy.
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>>100464347
>I get Tomoko-level awkward even in front of people I already know
That's another problem entirely. If you want to have meaningful connections with other people, you have to learn to open up. If you can't, then you can't. If you really think it's stopping you from being happy, try getting professional help. But don't rule out the possibility that you might be happy living an anonymous life. Don't feel like you have to conform to what movies and tv say are normal social lives.

>normalfags like him
I have exactly 6 friends, man. Close friends, but only 6. If you really don't want to meet people, then don't. I think being a loner is a perfectly valid way to live for some people.
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>>100464439
Oh god. Last time I gave someone my skype I couldn't get any sleep that night and the next day couldn't bring me to eat anything.
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>>100464568
> I have only 6 friends, I'm such a loner
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>>100464439
>Even on the internet, I get panic attacks
Then you aren't socially awkward, you have anxiety issues. That's not something that goes away without real help from people who have degrees.

>If you are socially retarded, being yourself is like shooting yourself in the foot, dumbfuck
You say that like there aren't tons of socially retarded people who start groups on websites to post pictures of things all day
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We are here for you /a/nons.
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>>100464564
This is more like
/a/ - Social Advice
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>>100464673
>real help from people who have degrees.
Am I being trolled
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>>100464564
>makes you who you are

anime defines your identity?
lol
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>>100464620
I'm not a loner. I have 6 friends, and therefore am not strictly alone. All I mean is that I'm not swimming in people who want to hang every night.

Real loners only know people they have to know to get by.
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>>100464699
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>>100464697
Anxiety and depression are real problems that people have. Sometimes you actually need some pills or therapy to get over your problems.
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It feels good, keeping a girlfriend isn't worth the resource commitment though.
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>>100464764
I get anxious when phoning my dentist to ask for a appointment for a checkup. I can't just go to some stranger and talk with him about my suicidal thoughts.
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>>100464799
The west should have proper cuddling services.
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>blogging
damn it /v/ go away
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>>100464564
It's worth remembering that /a/ isn't one person, and people who have cared about finding a 3DPD have always been around. They used to be even more prominent with old ronery threads, too. Not everyone on /a/ is like this. No sense in getting mad about it.
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>>100464699
Whoever said that? Liking anime as just this nerdy pastime, and bemoaning the fact that you have no social life, makes you belong on /soc/, /r9k/ or /facebook/ though

This thread is so full of cancerous normalfags it's sickening
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Fucking normalfags, the lot of you.
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>>100464876
> tfw non-virgins with friends call you a normalfag
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>tfw no merry group of neet friends to play and have gay orgies with all day
Why am I even alive?
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Since this thread is off-topic anyway, I wanted to seriously ask this for a long time. Do people here have actually social-anxiety like tomoko level? Or even a NEET that acts and lives like that dude from NHK?
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>>100462815
Like a bag of sand.
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>>100464947
Since I always assume that people in here are just role playing or pretend.
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>>100464947
I haven't held a conversation with a human being in a year. Does that answer your question?
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>>100464840
He's only a stranger until you meet him, anon. And if you really think that you would be happier as you are, rather than learning to open up and express yourself, maybe that's what's right for you.
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>>100464947
Some do, according to this thread, but who gives a fuck? Go blog about it on /r9k/ or /jp/. No one's forbidding you to be a crossboarder if you feel compelled to blog about your shitty life. Just don't do it here, for fuck's sake.
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>>100464947
>Do people here have actually social-anxiety like tomoko level?
Yes. It sometimes takes me half an hour of walking around and working up the courage to go into a restaurant alone.

Not a NEET though
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>>100464947
No, it's all fiction.
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>>100464947
>a NEET that acts and lives like that dude from NHK?
Yes. I lived like that for a long time.
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>>100462815
kinda feels soft and squishy.
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>>100465021
Is that a carrot?
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>>100465021
Riajuu pls leave.
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>>100464865
>It's worth remembering that /a/ isn't one person, and people who have cared about finding a 3DPD have always been around.
don't bring your RL baggage to /a/
bring it to /adv/ or /soc/
>They used to be even more prominent with old ronery threads, too.
which is why they're the "old" ronery threads
>No sense in getting mad about it.
fuck you this isn't anime
stop bringing this 3D nonsense here
god this is why I hate normalfags
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>>100464947
Yeah, I have a friend that turned into that. He never leaves his house anymore as far as I can tell, since he stopped going to school and doesn't have a job.
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>>100465021
What am I looking at?
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Stop bumping this nonsense.
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>>100464993
I believe in you /a/non.
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>>100465072
>fuck you this isn't anime
>I will contribute with more posts not about anime instead of hiding or reporting the thread
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>that feel when another Friday night home alone
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>>100465072
Anon, you misunderstood me. I was just saying it was pointless getting angry about it. Just report the thread and move on, although it appears mods are asleep or something right now.
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>>100465021
>>>/b/
>>>/soc/
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>>100465113
You're sad because of what day it is? This is a new level of self-loathing I can't comprehend
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>>100464947
I'm not quite as bad as Satou but I have been a neet and semi-hikki for ~7 years.
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>that feel when have a waifu but will never be the same as having a real girl
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It feels mediocre. I was totally let down the first time I embraced a woman. Totally overrated.
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>>100465200
>that feel when you will never be able to join your waifu in her 2D world
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>>100464947
When I still went to university, I always hid myself in the toilet when I was early so people won't notice me sitting in the lecture hall alone.
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Why is this thread still up.
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>>100465072
>inb4 he activates his #faggy trip
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>>100465239
lol
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Fucking mods
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Fuck it, I'll take this as a moment to blog and vent.

My social anxiety disorder is so bad that it results in pain. Physical, stabbing pain, all through my body. Whenever I step foot in a classroom, it begins. Only in a classroom and nowhere else. I just want it all to stop. Added onto this is the fact that I am absolutely terrified of somebody being rude to me, so I don't say anything. Eventually the pain and fear got so bad that I can no longer have any joy in talking to people. I just want to sit in my room all day, and I wouldn't miss a damn thing. It's half an excuse because of the pain and fear at this point and half a personal reason because it's so boring and pointless conversing with people. Fuck 3D, fuck real people, I can't take it and I don't want to because there is nothing there for me. All of the friends I once had fun talking to give me no pleasure in being around because it feels like I'm just trying to force conversations to maintain ties.

I can't fucking take this bullshit anymore. Listen up, all you fucking NEETs, who may be sad about not doing anything; you're living the goddamn dream life. You're having fun posting on 4chan all day, and having fun is what counts in life. You wouldn't have fun in a 3D relationship.
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>>100465242,3
Oops, meant for >>100464947



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